For high-performing men ready break the cycle of sabotage, heal what success couldn’t, and lead from their true power - in life, love, and leadership.

You’ve mastered performance, but it’s costing you. You’ve built a powerful life, but at the expense of your peace, purpose, and connection. The relationship feels distant, the success feels hollow, and no one knows what’s really going on behind the scenes with you. This is where you reclaim what matters most: your emotional clarity, your leadership in love, and your connection to who you really are.

This is for you if….

  • You’ve built success, but you’re still not free.

  • You’ve read the books, tried the hacks, done the therapy… and something still doesn’t shift.

  • You’re stuck in your head. Caught in self-doubt. Exhausted from doing it all alone.

  • Your partner feels distant, your spark is gone, and no matter how hard you try, the intimacy won’t come back.

  • You’ve done everything right, but still feel like something is deeply wrong.

    If you nodded to 2 or more of these, this isn’t just helpful. It’s necessary.

1:1 Coaching for High-Performing Men

This isn’t traditional coaching. This is deep, embodied transformation for the man who’s done everything… except face what’s really underneath it all.

My private coaching container is designed for the high-performing man who:

  • Looks like he has it together, but is quietly collapsing inside

  • Is tired of managing pressure, overthinking, and emotional shutdown

  • Craves true power, purpose, and peace, but doesn’t know where to start

What You’ll Walk Away With:

  • Feel confident navigating high-stakes conversations at work and at home

  • Break free from self-sabotage, people-pleasing, and unprocessed pain

  • Reclaim emotional clarity and internal stability, even in chaos

  • Attract and lead in a secure, passionate relationship

  • Build unshakable confidence rooted in who you are, not what you do

  • Make bold decisions without spiralling into self-doubt

  • Rebuild your sense of self-worth without needing external success

  • Discover the deeper purpose that’s been calling you all along

  • From spiralling into overthinking to becoming the calmest person in the room

This is the work that changes everything, because it changes you.

"I have participated in several development opportunities over my career, but nothing has been as challenging and rewarding as the time I spent with Evan.” - Jackson

Master Certified Coach (MCC) credentialed with over 2,500 coaching hours across 500+ clients globally. International experience coaching elite athletes, high-level leaders, and mission-driven entrepreneurs.

If you’ve done it all and nothing’s shifted, it’s because no one has shown you how to work with what’s underneath it all. This is where we go.

This is for the man who faces… (Before)

The Downward Spiral

You’ve created a life that looks good, but it doesn’t feel good. You feel numb, disconnected, and burnt out. You're going through the motions with no fire behind your eyes.

Success That’s Unsatisfying

You’ve built the business, got the promotion, won the respect, and checked every box, but still feel deeply unfulfilled. You keep achieving more, hoping it will finally feel like enough. Work is a means to an end, it doesn’t light you up within your bones.

The Silent Breakdown in Your Relationship

You’ve lost the connection. She feels distant. You can’t seem to bridge the gap, and it’s killing you. You know she doesn’t trust you to lead emotionally. You’re terrified you’ll lose her… or already have.

The Identity Crisis

You don’t know who you are without the work, the wins, your performance or the pressure. Stillness is terrifying. Without something to prove, you feel purposeless.

People-Pleasing & Passivity

You hold it all in, avoid conflict, and keep saying yes when your body screams no. You’re exhausted from living for everyone else’s expectations.

Suppressed Anger

You don’t explode, but it leaks. In silence. Sarcasm. Withdrawal. Resentment. You punish yourself, or the people you love, because you don’t know how to express what’s really going on inside.

This is for the man who wants to… (After)

Feel Clear and Calm Inside

Wake up with clarity. Move through your day with confidence. Stop the mental noise that’s been eating you alive.

Lead Without Losing Yourself

Show up powerfully in work and relationship, without the burnout, the masks, or the fear of failure.

Reignite Intimacy

Rebuild trust, connection, and passion in your relationship. Be the man who leads with presence, not performance.

Discover Your Purpose Again

No more chasing. Start living and creating from alignment. Build something meaningful, and feel fulfilled doing it.

Own Your Masculine Power

Embody calm strength. Speak your truth. Set the tone in every room you walk into. Step into the king that you are inherently.

Use Emotion as Fuel

Feel fully. Express confidently. Channel your fire into focus, leadership, and deep fulfillment.

What My Coaching is Not

My coaching isn't about rehashing painful memories or endless talk therapy. It's a powerful, action-oriented approach designed to help you break through emotional barriers and achieve tangible results. We won't waste time on vision boards or generic affirmations. Instead, we'll tackle the root causes of your challenges head-on, bridging the gap between where you are and where you want to be.

My Signature Method

1. Shadow Work: We surface what’s been ruling your life from the shadows. You’ll face what’s been driving the sabotage, avoidance, and internal conflict, and reclaim your power from it.

2. Embodiment & Nervous System Healing: We get you out of your head and into your body. This is where the emotional integration and lasting peace begins. You’ll regulate, relax, and come home to yourself.

3. Identity Reinvention: We rewrite who you think you are. You’ll let go of old roles, internalized shame, outdated identities, and rise into grounded, integrated leadership.

Why It Works: Because it’s not just about change, it’s about wholeness.

You won’t just feel better. You’ll become someone new: More present. More powerful. More emotionally attuned. More embodied in your masculine.

This is for men who are ready to stop talking and start integrating.

I only work with men ready to take full responsibility for their lives and do the deep work. If that’s you, you won’t just experience results. You’ll experience a revolution.

Apply for a private discovery call.
This is an application-only container for high-performing men who are ready to lead from who they truly are.

3 Months Container

The Gateway to Emotional Power, Presence & Purpose

  • This is a highly focused, high-impact private coaching container for high-performing men who are ready to break the cycle of internal chaos and finally lead their life from within.

    You’ll be guided through my proprietary Ascension Method™, a 3-phase transformational journey built for emotional mastery, grounded leadership, and deep reconnection to self, purpose, and love.

    Whether you choose weekly or fortnightly support, every session is designed to deliver massive internal shifts that ripple into every area of your life.

  • Option 1: The Focused Breakthrough

    For the man who moves fast and values depth. A lean, potent experience.

    • 6 x Fortnightly 90-minute sessions (over 3 months)

    • Tailored integration assignments for maximum impact between sessions

    • Email support for urgent breakthroughs (response within 24–48 hours)

    Ideal for: Men who thrive independently but want a structured, expert-guided breakthrough.

    Investment: $1800 USD
    Payment Plan: $650 USD x 3 months

  • The Accelerated Transformation

    For the man ready to fast-track his emotional evolution and internal leadership.

    • 12 x Weekly 60-minute coaching sessions (over 3 months)

    • Comprehensive initial assessment + strategic roadmap

    • Weekly accountability, tracking & recalibration

    • Unlimited email, text, and voice note support (24-hour response time)

    • 1x Emergency “SOS” call (30 minutes)

    • Premium Access to The Ascension Men’s Community for 3 months

    • 1 x reset intensive session post-program

    Ideal for: Men who are all-in on transformation and want powerful weekly momentum, accountability, and consistent coaching presence.

    Investment: $3600 USD 

    Payment Plan: $1250 USD x 3 months

    *less than the cost of a high-level retreat, yet with triple the depth, structure, and ongoing transformation.”

  • our 90-Day Results Roadmap:

    • Break free from overthinking, anxiety and self-sabotage patterns

    • Reignite emotional connection and intimacy in your relationship

    • Build unshakable confidence rooted in self-respect, not external validation

    • Rewire the internal drivers keeping you stuck in performance mode

    • Feel grounded, clear, and present, without needing to fix everything

    • Learn how to regulate your nervous system and lead with calm power

    • Become the man who can hold emotional intensity, speak truth, and move with purpose

    Progress Reassurance:
    If measurable transformation hasn’t occurred by Month 2, we’ll build a revised game plan or extend our container at no extra cost, because I stand behind this work.

    Case Study:
    "I've been working with Evan for the past six weeks, and during our regular coaching sessions, which involve breath, body and mindset work, I've been able to identify the underlying causes of my mental health concerns and regain complete control over my life. After just a short period of time, I am already focused and motivated once more, having regained my former sense of self-worth and at last my zest for life!" - Lucas O

    Apply Now:
    This is an application-only container for men who are serious about change and committed to leading themselves powerfully.

6 Months Container

Mastery, Identity, & Intimacy: The Deep Recalibration

  • A private high-performance transformation container for high-performing men who are ready to break generational patterns, reclaim their internal power, and permanently shift how they show up in life, love, and leadership.

    Whether you’re leading a business, navigating a major life transition, or simply done with chasing success that still leaves you feeling empty, this is the work that will change everything.

    What you gain in these 6 months will serve you for the next 6 years, in your business, relationships, and inner peace.

    Why This Isn’t Like Other Coaching
    Most programs teach mindset. This reprograms your identity. Most containers give advice. I give you the tools to lead yourself. This is elite mentorship for men ready to reclaim everything success made them sacrifice.

  • Option 1: The Strategic Mastery Journey

    For the high-performer who values deep reflection, strategic implementation, and space between sessions to integrate.

    • 12 x Fortnightly 90-minute sessions over 6 months

    • Comprehensive initial assessment & goal alignment session

    • Tailored integration assignments + curated support materials

    • Ongoing strategic recalibration based on personal evolution

    • 2x Emergency “SOS” calls (30 minutes)

    • Email support between sessions (24–48 hr response)

    • Standard Access to The Ascension Men’s Community

    • 1 x reset intensive session post-program

    Ideal for: Men seeking high-level transformation with time to implement deeply between sessions.

    Investment: $3600 USD 

    Payment Plan: $650 USD x 6 months

  • Option 2: The Quantum Shift: Personal Mastery

    (Only 3 Quantum Shift spots available per quarter to ensure depth)

    For the man who’s done with surface-level change and wants full-spectrum transformation across identity, leadership, and relationships, fast.

    • 24 x Weekly 60-minute coaching sessions over 6 months

    • Personalised strategic roadmap built from deep onboarding process

    • Weekly progress reviews & course correction

    • Unlimited email, text, and voice note support (24 hr response)

    • 3 x Emergency “SOS” calls (30 minutes)

    • Premium Access to The Ascension Men’s Community

    • 1 x reset intensive session post-program

    • Bonus: Priority access to men’s retreats & immersive intensives

    Ideal for: Visionary leaders and professionals ready to move at pace, with high-touch support, deep accountability, and full commitment to their evolution.

    Investment: $6900 USD 

    Payment Plan: $1185 USD x 6 months

  • Your 6-Month Mastery Outcomes:

    • Total recalibration of your internal operating system, from reactive to regulated

    • Rebuild emotional safety & attraction in your intimate relationship

    • Navigate high-stakes moments with calm, conviction, and clarity

    • Let go of performance-based validation and build confidence from within

    • Become grounded in who you are, no longer shape-shifting to be liked or needed

    • Develop a powerful daily practice that fuels your energy, focus, and purpose

    • Embody the emotional strength to hold space for others while staying rooted in yourself

    • Gain tools that serve you for life, long after our work ends, you’ll be equipped to navigate challenges, lead under pressure, and grow through any future storm.

    • Leave with a permanent upgrade in your identity, self-concept, and capacity to lead with emotional and relational mastery.

    Success didn’t break you, disconnection did. And now it’s time to come back to yourself.

    Authority Reassurance: This container is led by Evan Spargo: Master Certified Coach (ICF MCC), 2500+ hours of coaching experience, international athlete, and founder of The Ascension Men’s Community. You’re hiring a partner in lifelong transformation, one who’s walked through the fire and built the frameworks to guide you through your own.


    “My life changed when I met Evan. His ability to work with me through high pressure situations and issues I face daily with work and family life was outstanding. I’m a different person today… a better one!” - Luke P

    Apply Now: Entry into this container is by application only. Serious inquiries from men ready to step fully into their next evolution.

12 Months - The ‘All In’ Journey

The Sovereign Man: Elite Yearlong Leadership & Mastery Experience (Limit to 5 per year)

  • For the man who’s ready to build a legacy, not just a life.

    This is a rare, invitation-only experience for high-performing men who have reached the top of their game but know something deeper is calling. You’ve already built success. Now you’re here to master yourself, lead powerfully, and become unshakable in every domain of life.

    This isn’t coaching. It’s a complete identity recalibration and leadership evolution, one that permanently changes how you move, speak, love, and lead.

    You will be held to the highest standard you’ve ever experienced.

  • The 12-Month Transformation Includes:

    • Weekly 60-minute private coaching sessions

    • A personalized 12-month strategic roadmap updated quarterly

    • Unlimited voice, text, and email support (24 hr response)

    • 4 x Emergency "SOS" calls for high-stakes or emotional moments

    • Premium Access to The Ascension Men’s Community for 12 months

    • Priority access to men's retreats & live intensives

    • NEW: Exclusive Legacy Design Intensive (90-min strategy + implementation mapping)

    • NEW: Quarterly Relationship & Intimacy Check-ins (optional partner inclusion)

    • BONUS: 1x In-Person Immersion Day on the Gold Coast

    • BONUS: VIP Gift Package (tools to support your ritual, practice, and presence)

  • What You’ll Walk Away With:

    • Complete emotional sovereignty and nervous system mastery

    • Deep trust in yourself and the ability to lead under pressure

    • The end of imposter syndrome, perfectionism, and performance-based worth

    • Repaired or completely transformed relationships (or the clarity to walk away)

    • Unshakeable inner leadership — no more outsourcing your power

    • A clear legacy and mission, with the energy and alignment to fulfill it

    • A new identity: not just a successful man, but a sovereign one

    This work stays with you for life. The man who enters this container will not be the one who walks out. This is not about improvement. This is about rebirth.

    Investment: USD $10,800 Upfront (Save $1200)

    Payment Options: USD $1000 x 12 or $3600 × 4

    [Optional Add-On]: Quarterly 1:1 intensives or 4-day private retreat (inquire for rates)

    Apply Below: Entry into this container is by application only. You must be ready to lead yourself with full commitment and no fallback plan.

    APPLY NOW

  • CLIENT STORY: From Self-Doubt to Sovereign Leadership

    Jerry Li, Investment Associate

    Jerry came to me successful on paper, but spinning internally. As a high-achieving financial analyst, he constantly second-guessed himself, feared judgment in meetings, and carried a pressure to always get things right. His anxiety was quiet, but it controlled everything, his career, his confidence, his relationships.

    His Challenges:

    • Overthinking & Anxiety: A relentless inner critic and constant loop of self-doubt.

    • Fear of Judgment: Avoided speaking up, worried about being wrong or seen as inadequate.

    • No Clear Definition of Success: Chasing external validation without internal fulfillment.

    • Decision Paralysis: Struggled to trust his own instincts, defaulted to over-analysis.

    • Lack of Presence: Rarely felt grounded, always thinking ahead, rarely enjoying now.

    Our Work Together:

    What Jerry thought he needed was more confidence. What he actually needed was clarity and integration. Through deep identity work, shadow exploration, and emotional recalibration, Jerry learned to trust his decisions, speak with certainty, and navigate life without spiraling into self-doubt.

    He developed emotional awareness, tools for nervous system regulation, and the ability to see himself beyond performance. As a result, he stopped outsourcing his power, and started leading from it.

    The Breakthrough:

    Jerry landed a new leadership role with greater responsibility and significantly higher pay, something he previously believed was “out of reach.” More importantly, he felt ready for it. The transformation was evident not just in his job title, but in the way he walked, spoke, and showed up calm, grounded, and certain of who he is.

    His Words:

    “I’ve had the privilege of working with Evan as my coach and mentor for the past year, and I can confidently say that the experience and outcomes have been transformative and well beyond my expectations. Through our sessions together, Evan has been the guiding force behind the growth of my confidence, leadership skills, and ability to face challenges with excitement and optimism, culminating in me landing a new role that has enabled me to progress into the next chapter of my career.

    Evan demonstrated an exceptional ability to challenge me to be inquisitive about my upbringing, past experiences, and the motivations behind my goals. Not only did Evan provide invaluable and memorable insights, but he also tailored tools and strategies to help me navigate both personal and professional challenges. In each conversation, his guidance played a crucial role in my mindset growth, the tug-of-war against an overthinking persona, and has set me on a path to realise my potential.

    If you’re seeking a coach who can help you unlock your leadership potential, build your confidence, and transform how you approach challenges across all aspects of life, I would wholeheartedly recommend Evan. His commitment to helping others thrive, combined with his expertise, experience, and genuine passion and care, makes him an outstanding mentor.”

What clients are saying:

  • "I first contacted Evan because I was unhappy with the direction my career and personal lives were taking, which was having a negative impact on my health. I was struggling with sadness, anxiety, low self-esteem, and general negativity. I've been working with Evan for the past six weeks, and during our regular coaching sessions—which involve breath, body and mindset work—I've been able to identify the underlying causes of my mental health concerns and regain complete control over my life. After just a short period of time, I am already focused and motivated once more, having regained my former sense of self-worth and at last my zest for life!"

    Lucas O’Brien

  • "I have approached Evan because I was looking to find a way forward. I also felt like I needed to discover my own ‘voice’ and embody it in all aspects of my life. Working with Evan was magical. It was uplifting, deep, sometimes emotional, and definitely healing. He is a great coach and a human being with a big heart. He is very real and open. He knows how to take you to places in your soul where you may not go on your own. And in doing so, you feel guided and supported. I recommend working with Evan if you are serious about deep personal work and need an experienced facilitator to partner with you."

    Sergey Helmar

  • "I have participated in several Development opportunities over my career, but nothing has been as challenging and rewarding as the time I spent with Evan. Working together for three months, Evan really challenged me and my mindset, helping me to uncover and see things which have unlocked immense clarity for me. I would highly recommend Evan to anyone out there and I look forward to working with him again one day."

    Jackson Wilkes

  • I’ve had the privilege of working with Evan as my coach and mentor for the past year, and I can confidently say that the experience and outcomes have been transformative and well beyond my expectations. Through our sessions together, Evan has been the guiding force behind the growth of my confidence, leadership skills, and ability to face challenges with excitement and optimism, culminating in me landing a new role that has enabled me to progress into the next chapter of my career. Evan demonstrated an exceptional ability to challenge me to be inquisitive about my upbringing, past experiences, and the motivations behind my goals. Not only did Evan provide invaluable and memorable insights, but he also tailored tools and strategies to help me navigate both personal and professional challenges. In each conversation, his guidance played a crucial role in my mindset growth, the tug-of-war against an overthinking persona, and has set me on a path to realise my potential.

    Jerry Li

  • "Even helps create a space for insights to drop in, and I always end up feeling so much more grounded and connected to life. Our 6-months together was beyond powerful and so meaningful for me as I’ve been navigating feelings of extreme anxiety plus a sense of lacking any clear direction.  Many coaches and practitioners have lots of great tools to help, but Evan is above and beyond when it comes to helping me feel safe, seen and asks very powerful questions that help unlock my own blocks. The best part of working with Ev is that he is present in the moment, and has what is seemingly an innate ability to help me move through blocks & limiting beliefs to find answers to the questions that keep me stuck, and most importantly a sense of peace!"

    Liam O’Donnell

  • "I would definitely recommend Evan's services to friends, colleagues and even family. I engaged with Evan at a later date to help me better understand my team at work, his input was very insightful and helpful to me better understanding how each individual operates. I would strongly recommend this to any business leader. “If you want different results than what you’re getting, you have to try different approaches."

    Martin Cerantonio

  • "My experience working with Evan has been incredibly rewarding. I’ve seen half a dozen therapists over the years and few have done for me what Evan has. Evan treats our sessions with care, insight and such a safe space that I have been able to be my most vulnerable. This has allowed me to overcome difficulties I didn’t know possible. His approach allows for emotional, spiritual, and psychological growth and health. Honestly our sessions are astoundingly liberating and I feel so lucky to have found such a caring and talented person to help guide me on my journey. I leave every session amazed with the results."

    Alex M

  • "My life changed when I met Evan. His ability to work with me through high pressure situations and issues I face daily with work and family life was outstanding. I’m a different person today… a better one!"

    Luke Pace

  • "Coaching with Evan helped me towards reaching self-fulfilment and to take more control of my life. As a result of our coaching, I gained a lot of value as I created my own company and now have time to go and find my own clients. I now get to see my children and family more often, and help more people through my work."

    Gaurav Rai

  • “Evan is world-class. That very well may be an understatement. I regularly internalise my emotions and convince myself that certain things in life don’t affect me. These things inevitably overflow and I’m so grateful that I have Evan to turn to when I’m experiencing turmoil. I have never walked away from a session without greater clarity, understanding and resolution than when I came in.” He IS life-changing. Thank you Evan!"

    Matthew Vacirca

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