The Ascension Men’s Community

Master Yourself, Transform Your World: Join a Brotherhood Built for Men Who Refuse to Settle

Step into a community where growth, accountability, and transformation come together. The Ascension isn’t just a space, it’s your gateway to becoming the man you’ve always envisioned.

For the Man Who Knows There’s More

You’ve worked hard. You’ve pushed through. You’ve done everything right.

But something still feels off.

You feel disconnected from yourself, your relationships, and your purpose. No matter how much you achieve, there’s an underlying sense that you’re not truly fulfilled.

A feeling that something deeper is missing.

Maybe you’ve spent years being the nice guy, prioritizing everyone else while secretly resenting how much you give. Maybe you avoid conflict, keep emotions bottled up, or struggle to set boundaries in your personal and professional life.

And underneath it all, you’re carrying a silent weight of self-doubt, anxiety, and frustration. A pressure to always have to perform.

You’ve read the books, attended the workshops, even tried going at it alone, yet the same patterns keep repeating and real change hasn’t stuck.

Because transformation doesn’t happen in isolation. It happens in the right environment with men who challenge and support you to step up and own who you truly are.

You know it’s time to change.

That’s why this community exists.

What is The Ascension?

The Ascension isn’t just another men’s group. It’s a space for high-performing men who are ready to drop the mask, break free from old limitations, and step into a more powerful, grounded, and purpose-driven way of living.

Here, you’ll be surrounded by men who refuse to settle. Men who are willing to do the real work - not just talk about it.

This is about more than just leveling up. It’s about:

✔ Reclaiming your confidence – Not from external validation, but from a deep, unshakable trust in yourself.
✔ Mastering your mind and emotions – No more spiraling thoughts, overthinking, or self-sabotage.
✔ Building deep, meaningful relationships – With a partner who respects and desires the real you.
✔ Leading with strength and integrity – In your career, your purpose, and your everyday life.
✔ Creating true personal freedom – Free from the anxiety, patterns, and pressure that have held you back.

This is the space where you stop waiting for things to change and start becoming the man who makes it happen.

The work we do inside:

Real transformation isn’t just about learning more, it’s about integration. Inside the Ascension, we don’t just talk about change. We live it.

  • The Mindset Shift: Understand and rewire the patterns that have controlled you for years. Learn how to break free from overthinking, fear, and self-doubt.

  • The Emotional Edge: Learn to regulate your nervous system, break free from anxiety, and show up with confidence, no matter the situation.

  • The Power of Brotherhood: You’re no longer doing this alone. You’ll be surrounded by driven, growth-focused men who push you to new levels and hold you accountable to your highest self.

  • Masculine Leadership & Presence: Step into a powerful, grounded way of living. Lead in your relationships, your career, and your personal life with strength and authenticity.

  • Execution & Momentum: This isn’t theory. You’ll have the exact frameworks, strategies, and support to implement real, lasting change in your life, starting now.

This isn’t about perfection. It’s about mastery.

Who is this for?

This isn’t for men who are looking for a quick fix.

This is for the man who:

✔ Is ready to take full ownership of his life, no more blaming external circumstances.
✔ Is tired of surface-level solutions and is ready to do the deeper work.
✔ Wants to surround himself with a high-caliber brotherhood that calls him to a higher standard.
✔ Wants more than just success, he wants true fulfilment, freedom, and peace.

If that’s you, then this is your next step.

Now imagine this…

You wake up each day with absolute clarity, knowing exactly what needs to be done - not out of pressure or fear, but because you’re driven by a vision that excites you. You move with purpose, no longer caught in hesitation or self-doubt.

The old patterns that once held you back, procrastination, self-sabotage, playing small, are no longer running the show. You’ve broken free from the cycle of overthinking, avoidance, and seeking external validation. Now, you take action with confidence, fully trusting yourself.

In your relationships, you show up as a strong, grounded man. You’re done with people-pleasing and second-guessing yourself. You speak your truth with confidence, hold strong boundaries, and create deep, meaningful connections built on respect—not obligation.

The anxiety and overthinking that once drained you? No longer in control. You’re no longer ruled by self-criticism or the fear of getting it wrong. Instead, you trust yourself fully.

Your energy is no longer wasted on proving yourself or seeking external validation. Instead, you move through life as a man who knows who he is, what he stands for, and what he’s here to create.

This is what it looks like to step into self-leadership. To break free from the weight of anxiety and finally build a life on your terms.

The question is—are you ready to become this man?

Why I created the Ascension?

Growing up, I didn’t have the support I needed, not from other men, and not from my father. I had no guidance, no one to turn to when life felt heavy. So I did what most men do - I kept it all inside, believing I had to figure it out alone.

I carried a lot of shame, like something was wrong with me for struggling. I thought I had to “man up” and push through, but deep down, I craved connection, support, and a place where I could be real about what I was facing.

Everything changed when I joined a men’s community. For the first time, I realized I wasn’t alone. I met men who understood me, who were navigating similar struggles but committed to growth. With brotherhood, guidance, and support, I finally had what I’d been missing. I built deep friendships, gained the tools to overcome challenges, and stepped into a stronger, more confident version of myself.

When that community ended, I knew I had to create something of my own - a space where men could break free from isolation, step into their power, and rise together.

That’s why I built The Ascension - so no man has to walk his path alone. Here, you’ll find a brotherhood of men dedicated to growth, accountability, and becoming the strongest version of themselves - in life, relationships, and leadership.

What’s inside the Ascension?

  • The Ascension: A 12-Month Transformation Journey

    A powerful membership and group coaching experience designed to help high-achieving men break free from anxiety, self-doubt, and limitations—so they can lead with confidence, clarity, and purpose.

    Your First 12 Weeks: The Foundation of Your Evolution

    Phase 1: Self-Discovery (Weeks 1-4)

    • Uncover the root causes of your challenges and patterns.

    • Complete the Present Pain Audit to gain deep self-awareness.

    • Co-create a personal blueprint for your most meaningful goals.

    Phase 2: Building Momentum (Weeks 5-8)

    • Implement strategies to break through mental and emotional barriers.

    • Form new, empowering habits that support your success.

    • Stay accountable with the group’s support while gaining confidence in your growth.

    Phase 3: Living in Alignment (Weeks 9-12)

    • Experience a sense of ease, clarity, and emotional freedom.

    • Strengthen your self-confidence and transform your relationships.

    • Take more action toward your goals than ever before—backed by an unshakable brotherhood.

    Beyond 12 Weeks: The Journey Continues
    Most men commit for at least 12 months, because transformation isn’t a quick fix—it’s a way of life. The Ascension is your ongoing space for growth, leadership, and mastery, with the flexibility to continue for as long as you need.

  • We will be covering the following 4 key pillars in the program:

    Masculinity

    • Gain clarity on your purpose and find meaning in life.

    • Understand healthy masculinity and leadership.

    • Confidently express your voice, wants, needs, and boundaries clearly.

    Performance

    • Shift your mindset to develop a natural sense of optimism and a positive outlook on life.

    • Overcome self sabotage and take action on goals you’ve been procrastination on 

    • Face your shadow self, accessing hidden parts to bring more energy, passion, and conviction to daily life.

    Embodiment

    • Connect with your body for deeper self-presence.

    • Practice regulating your nervous system to expand emotional capacity and return to calmness.

    • Learn the techniques to let go of overwhelm, anxiety and stress.

    Relationships

    • Communicate more effectively, set boundaries, and ask for your needs.

    • Learn masculine and feminine energetics to maintain polarity in relationships.

    • Cultivate more intimacy in relationships and with yourself.

    • Introductory call with Evan

    • Online Men’s Community: A private place where members post questions, celebrate wins, and support each other.

    • Live Virtual Workshops: Learn directly from Evan and guest experts on the key pillars such as: Masculinity, mindset, leadership, relationships, and self-mastery.

    • Men’s Circle: A supportive space where men come together to share openly, explore themes of growth and healing, and be held in a judgment-free environment.

    • Monthly 1:1 Coaching Call with Evan (Premium Members Only)

    • Weekly Q&A (Premium Members Only): A question and answer style group call, which allows you to be coached and mentored by Evan on the spot, and get support real-time by him and the community

    • Access to Full Training Library: You will get full access to all recorded trainings, instructional videos, templates, resources and documents of the Ascension program. The one place where Evan pours all his work into. 

    • Weekly Accountability Check-ins

    • Weekly Challenges

    • Freedom from anxiety, self-doubt & emotional heaviness
      – Learn tools and practices that help you let go of internal pressure and experience greater emotional calm and mental clarity.

    • Discover your true identity
      – Reconnect with who you are beneath the roles, masks, and achievements. Build unshakeable self-worth.

    • Deep, authentic brotherhood
      – Be surrounded by other powerful men who see you, support you, and hold you to a higher standard, no more doing life alone.

    • Clarity on your direction in life
      – Gain insight into what you truly want, where you’re heading, and what needs to shift so you can fully align with your purpose.

    • Master your masculine energy
      – Feel grounded, focused, and in control of your energy. Lead yourself and others from a place of strength and emotional maturity.

    • Thrive in intimate relationships
      – Learn how to create secure, passionate, and connected relationships with your partner through better communication, presence, and leadership.

    • Greater confidence in all areas of life
      – Build real inner confidence that doesn’t rely on external validation, from career to dating to friendships.

    • A space to express and be fully seen
      – Drop the mask, share your truth, and be witnessed by men who get it, without judgement.

    • Accountability to your growth
      – Stay on track with your personal goals and breakthroughs with the support of weekly check-ins and a committed brotherhood.

    • Elevated leadership in life and work
      – Show up powerfully as a leader in your business, career, family, and community, not from ego, but from truth and embodiment.

  • We meet on Zoom every Wednesday.

    We will workshop every 1st & 3rd Wednesday of each month at 2pm SIN / 4pm Melb / 6pm NZ time*, to implement your personal Ascension and the four pillars.

    We will do a Men’s circle every 2nd & 4th Wednesday at 2pm SIN / 4pm Melb / 6pm NZ time*, to create a space to dive deep into what it means to be a man, to explore any current challenges and provide a space of support and learning for each other.

    *Please Note Daylight Savings Time Changes During the Year

    April - October (Q2 & Q3): 2pm SIN / 4pm Melb / 6pm NZ time
    October - April (Q4 & Q1): 1:30pm SIN / 4:30pm Melb / 6:30pm NZ time

Membership Options

    • 15-minute Introduction call with Evan (We do your present pain audit, gaining awareness of anything that’s causing stress and your personal intention plan.)

    • Fortnightly Live Workshop

    • Fortnightly Men’s Circle

    • Access to Full Training Library 

    • Accountability group 

    • Private Online Community

    • Weekly Check-in & Challenges

    Investment: USD $99 per month

    • 45-minute Introduction call with Evan (We do your present pain audit, gaining awareness of anything that’s causing stress and a personal needs analysis, alongside a personalised plan for best implementing your Ascension.)

    • Monthly 1:1 Coaching Call with Evan Receive extra support personally from Evan, with a monthly 1:1 specialised coaching call via zoom to work on any challenges you may be facing, and gain personal mentoring around a specific area in your life you want to transcend.

    • Weekly Q&A:  Premium members will have access to a weekly question and answer with Evan, where they get to ask any questions relating to the content, ask for any advice and receive support on the spot from him and other members.

    • Fortnightly Live Workshop

    • Fortnightly Men’s Circle

    • Access to Full Training Library 

    • Accountability group 

    • Private Online Community

    • Weekly Check-in & Challenges

    Investment: USD $397 per month

    USD $1800 for 6 months upfront or USD $3000 upfront

2025 Quarter Themes

  • Qtr 1 - Masculinity & The Body

    This is where it all begins. You’ll embody the four masculine archetypes - King, Warrior, Lover, Magician - to show up with confidence, purpose, and leadership.

    Work with our guest elite athlete to optimize your fitness and nutrition, and learn to regulate your nervous system to break free from stress and anxiety.

    Master your mind. Strengthen your body. Step into your power.

  • Qtr 2 - Relationships

    Strong men build strong relationships. This quarter, you’ll refine how you lead, connect, and attract from a place of deep masculine presence.

    Masculine Leadership & Polarity – Develop unshakable confidence, embody true presence, and create deeper trust in your relationships.

    Attachment Styles – Understand your patterns, break old cycles, and build secure, fulfilling connections.

    Sex & Intimacy – A guest expert will guide you in unlocking deeper passion, connection, and self-expression.

    Lead in love. Own your power. Deepen your relationships.

  • Qtr 3: Self-Leadership & Purpose

    A man without purpose drifts. This quarter is about stepping into true self-leadership, owning your mission, expanding your capacity, and breaking through the barriers that have kept you playing small. It’s time to strengthen your mind, body, and presence so you can lead with confidence, be seen for who you truly are, and create a life that aligns with your deepest purpose. No more waiting. No more holding back. It’s time to lead.

  • Qtr 4 - Mindset

    Your mind can be your greatest weapon or your biggest limitation. This quarter is about confronting the parts of yourself you’ve been avoiding, diving deep into shadow work, understanding the ego, and breaking free from mental patterns that keep you stuck. When you master your inner world, you master your life. It’s time to think, act, and live like the man you’re meant to be.

Real Stories. Real Transformations.

What the Ascension members say:

  • “Before joining the Ascension, I felt like I was stuck on a treadmill, working hard but never making progress toward my emotional goals. I was stuck with emotions that I did not know how and where to share. Evan is someone I have really resonated with from the very first time I met him, his calm manner, his understanding of the world and what people go through together with his sought s no-nonsense yet deeply empathetic approach really resonated. I knew I needed someone who could challenge me while supporting me, and the Ascension seemed like the perfect container to grow. Since joining, I’ve gained clarity about what truly matters in my life, developed practical tools to really understand myself and what I am going through everyday. One of the most powerful moments was a question during Shadow Work where I realised my fear of success. Joining the Ascension wasn’t just a decision, it has been a turning point in my journey.”

    Prajesh Chhanabhai

  • "Before joining the Ascension, I had trouble expressing my feelings, especially my anger and sadness. I wanted to belong so much with other people that I would never speak up when a boundary was crossed, I would push down the hurt and ignore it. I resisted joining the Ascension for a while, I had worked with Evan before and I trusted him but the idea of expressing my thoughts and feelings in front of a group of strangers terrified me. So I finally joined to challenge myself and to become a better father and a better person. It is a tough journey, but now I have a group of people who go through similar albeit very different challenges than mine. They believe in me, they support me and more importantly, they keep me accountable. There have been many times when I was having a conversation with someone where I needed to express something and the urge to run away came in, in those moments I think about the men of the Ascension, they give me the courage and I tell myself, I promised them so I need to speak up now. Discovering or re-discovering oneself is a daunting and terrifying task, but I don't do it alone anymore, and this is priceless."

    Aurelien Beraud

  • "The Ascension is simply the formula that works for me. I have always had great trust in Evan, and this community is the apotheosis of all the work we’ve done together in the past. I was able to implement it in my weekly routine, and the impact on my life has been enormous and fast. It is the support system that enables me to work towards becoming the best version of myself. It has helped me understand what changes to make to become a better father and husband. My relationship to my son and to my wife has completely changed since. I have learned to deal with traumas and a lot of interference in my life to make life changing adjustments. The big one for me is that I manage the feeling of anger better which has been very destructive for myself and people I care about. Now I feel empowered and supported to face all the hurdles with the needed tools to become the man I aspire to be."

    Frank David

  • "In order to grow, one often needs more than just one-on-one interaction with a coach. He needs an environment, a community to feel the support of like-minded people. This is what I have found with Ascension. I had worked with Evan before, so this format is definately a step-up with even more impact. One of the personal shifts is I have managed to embrace and express my personal leadership more fully. The group was also a safe outlet to process my experience as I was going through a major transition in life - relocation to another country. Ascension offers a great space to belong and grow together"

    Sergey Helmar

  • "I have approached Evan because I was looking to find a way forward. I also felt like I needed to discover my own ‘voice’ and embody it in all aspects of my life. Working with Evan was magical. It was uplifting, deep, sometimes emotional, and definitely healing. He is a great coach and a human being with a big heart. He is very real and open. He knows how to take you to places in your soul where you may not go on your own. And in doing so, you feel guided and supported. I recommend working with Evan if you are serious about deep personal work and need an experienced facilitator to partner with you."

    Chris Firinauskas

  • "Being a part of the community is the connection I didn’t know I needed. Unwavering support, accountability and vulnerability from other men is seriously empowering. I didn’t know what I would get initially, but I’m glad I said yes and took the leap. I am a better person as I am now able to voice thoughts, opinions and perspective to people who understand my experiences. I did not previously have this. I have also become increasingly invested in the success of others, which is energising. I’ve learned that I have an energy and ability to impact which I didn’t know existed (or at least, the extent in which it existed). I’ve also learned how I can be a better man - for my future partner and family, and those I currently deal with. Most importantly, for me. The mens circle is an incredible experience. Again, one which I didn’t know I needed. I was unsure of it to begin with, but it has become my highlight of the week."

    Matt Vacirca

Meet Matt

Are You Ready to Lead Yourself?

The life you’ve been waiting for doesn’t happen by chance, it starts with a choice.
Choose to rise. Choose to lead. Choose to live life on your terms.
Join The Ascension and become part of a brotherhood that will push you, support you, and help you grow into the man you’re meant to be:

FAQs

Still Have Questions?

  • A man who’s:

    • Focused on growth and high performance

    • A heart-led leader ready to embody confidence, assertiveness, trust your decisions, and make a big impact

    • Tired of living in fear and playing small

    • Read all the self-help books with no real change

    • Sick of being stuck in your head, overthinking and worrying about others

    • Seeking real meaning and purpose in life

    • Unwilling to accept life as it is, ready to access untapped potential

    • Done with your unhealthy behaviours, ready to take consistent action toward your goals

    • Ready to revive intimacy and polarity in your relationship

    • Feeling alone on this journey, lacking like-minded men in your life

    • Don’t want to climb a mountain, join a fight club or run an ironman to ‘prove it to yourself’ (or maybe you have, and realised ‘oh shit, that didn’t work’).

  • Not at all. We welcome men of all experience levels, whether you’ve just started your journey into discovering who you are and self development, right up to men who have done plenty of inner work already. This community caters for all experience levels, but you must have an open mind and be a growth oriented man to get the best out of this community.

  • We get it - taking the leap can be daunting. That’s why we offer a free consultation call to explore if The Ascension is the right fit for you.

  • You’ll need a few hours a week for calls and participation, but the more you invest, the more you’ll get out of it.

  • It’s very simple.

    1. Apply and book a call

    2. We dive into your biggest challenges and goals

    3. You get clarity and a plan forward

    4. Decide if this is the right fit.

    5. Join The Ascension and begin your transformation

    Not Sure Yet? Schedule a Free Discovery Call to Learn More

  • By being in this community and being a consistent contributor / participant, members have experienced the following outcomes:

    • Freedom from anxiety, self-doubt & emotional heaviness
      – Learn tools and practices that help you let go of internal pressure and experience greater emotional calm and mental clarity.

    • Discover your true identity
      – Reconnect with who you are beneath the roles, masks, and achievements. Build unshakeable self-worth.

    • Deep, authentic brotherhood
      – Be surrounded by other powerful men who see you, support you, and hold you to a higher standard, no more doing life alone.

    • Clarity on your direction in life
      – Gain insight into what you truly want, where you’re heading, and what needs to shift so you can fully align with your purpose.

    • Master your masculine energy
      – Feel grounded, focused, and in control of your energy. Lead yourself and others from a place of strength and emotional maturity.

    • Thrive in intimate relationships
      – Learn how to create secure, passionate, and connected relationships with your partner through better communication, presence, and leadership.

    • Greater confidence in all areas of life
      – Build real inner confidence that doesn’t rely on external validation, from career to dating to friendships.

    • A space to express and be fully seen
      – Drop the mask, share your truth, and be witnessed by men who get it, without judgement.

    • Accountability to your growth
      – Stay on track with your personal goals and breakthroughs with the support of weekly check-ins and a committed brotherhood.

    • Elevated leadership in life and work
      – Show up powerfully as a leader in your business, career, family, and community, not from ego, but from truth and embodiment.

  • No. You can leave anytime.

    Please note, if you leave you are unable to re-join for 6 months.