Evan Spargo
High Performance Coach | ICF Master Certified Coach
Helping the person behind the high performance thrive.
You're winning on the outside. So why does it feel like it's costing you everything?
The performance is still there. But the energy's gone, and somewhere along the way you stopped recognising the person doing it all.
Here's the truth almost no one in the performance world will tell you: it's not a performance problem. It's a capacity leak, and it's not in your calendar or your system. It's in you. The person behind the performance, running everything while going completely unattended.
I help high performers find, free and expand that capacity, so they perform at their peak and live a life that actually feels like theirs. Without burning out, and without losing what matters most.
Sound Familiar?
"I'm killing it at work, but my health and relationships are paying for it."
"I want the next leadership role, but I'm scared of what it'll cost the people I love."
"I keep hitting the same ceiling, no matter how hard I push."
"I've achieved everything I set out to, and I still feel empty and like it’s not enough."
"Something feels off, and I can't quite put my finger on it."
Whether you're a CEO, founder, executive, professional athlete or high-performing leader,
if those words landed, keep reading...
You're not running on empty because you're weak, or stuck because you chose wrong. Your performance has outpaced the capacity underneath it.
The next level isn't more tactics, more optimisation, more pushing through. That's what got you here. The next level is capacity: finding what's quietly draining yours, and freeing it.
And here's what almost no one in the performance world will tell you… that capacity isn't leaking from your system. It's leaking from you. The person who's been running everything while going completely unattended. Address that, and the performance takes care of itself.
That's the highest-leverage work there is, and it's where I've spent the last 2,800 hours.
This is the work I do, one-on-one.
Here's what it looks like:
What "capacity" actually means
You don't fail at this level from a lack of capability. You've got plenty, the talent, the track record, the work ethic. That was never the problem.
You fail when the capacity underneath the capability quietly erodes. And it doesn't go in one dramatic moment. It goes slowly, decision by decision, week by week, the accumulated weight of carrying it all while never quite refilling the tank. Until one day the same load you used to handle easily is costing you everything.
Nobody trained you for that part. You were taught how to build the capability. No one taught you how to protect the capacity it runs on.
That's the work.
About Evan
I know this territory because I've lived it.
I used to be the guy who wanted to disappear.
Shy. Quiet. Low self-worth. Nobody would have guessed I'd go on to play for the Philippines National 7s Rugby Team, speak on stages in front of 10,000 people, and spend 2,800+ hours coaching leaders, executives and high performers across the world.
But for years, the outside and the inside told completely different stories.
I had built my entire identity around achieving. The next milestone was always going to be the one that finally made me feel enough.
It never did.
When it finally broke, through heartbreak, financial loss, and bouts of depression, I had to stop trying to think my way out and start facing what I'd been avoiding for years.
I went through the fire, and on the other side, I understood the thing I now build my whole work around: I'd spent my whole life optimising the performance and neglecting the person underneath it, and that person was running everything.
Nurture that person, and everything changes. Neglect him or her, and no amount of winning ever feels like enough.
That process changed everything. Not because it was comfortable. Because it was finally real.
Now I channel all of it… the lived experience, the MCC credential, the years in elite sport, 10+ years in physical performance, into one focus:
Helping the person behind the high performance thrive.
ICF Master Certified Coach (MCC) Top 3% globally
2,800+ hours coaching executives, leaders and athletesFormer
International Rugby Player, Philippines National 7’s Team
10+ years experience as a Strength & Conditioning Coach
Founder of The Ascension Brotherhood
"The experience and outcomes have been transformative and well beyond my expectations. Evan has been the guiding force behind the growth of my confidence, leadership skills, and ability to face challenges with excitement, culminating in me landing a new role and the next chapter of my career. He challenged me to be inquisitive about the motivations behind my goals... his commitment to helping others thrive, combined with his genuine care, makes him an outstanding coach."
Jerry Li, Investment Associate
Work With Me
Two Ways to Transform
1:1 High Performance Coaching
Private coaching for executives, founders, leaders and elite performers.
This is for you if:
You're excelling on the outside but know something is quietly costing you everything else, your energy, your health, your relationships, or your sense of who you are.
The way through isn't more tactics, harder work, or another optimisation system. It's addressing the person behind the performance, and freeing the capacity that's been quietly draining underneath all the achievement.
What changes:
The tension you've been carrying eases. You make sharper calls under pressure because you're no longer running on empty. You lead with a presence that doesn't cost you anything to hold, because it's real.
You're home at the end of the day, and you're actually home, not just physically present. You perform at your peak, and for the first time in a long time, it doesn't cost you everything else to do it.
Three ways to work together:
The Clarity Session 90 mins | The Intensive 12 Weeks | The Partnership 6 Months
Limited to 3–5 clients at any one time. By application only.
Click here to learn more:
The Ascension Brotherhood
The Brotherhood for Men Who Lead
An online global brotherhood for high-performing men who refuse to settle. If you’re looking for real challenge, higher standards, and a space to discover who you truly are, you belong here.
This isn’t another men’s group.
It’s a brotherhood for men who already carry weight for others, executives, coaches, founders, leaders, who want to raise their standards, break old patterns, and expand their identity alongside men who demand more from themselves and each other.
Inside the Ascension, you’ll:
Forge bonds that hold you to your highest standard, no more lone wolf
Get challenged to grow emotionally, mentally, and as a leader
Drop the mask, face your blind spots, and commit to transformation with depth, structure, and accountability
Wake up driven, clear, and on fire at work, at home, and in yourself
Master emotional intelligence, shadow integration, and grounded masculine leadership
Every quarter, we attack a new pillar of self leadership, through live workshops, men’s circles, and relentless accountability. You’ll walk out clearer, stronger, and more connected than ever.
Three Levels of Commitment:
Standard: Full access to weekly workshops, men’s circles, training vault, accountability, and private community
Premium: Everything in Standard, plus monthly 1:1, weekly Q&A, and a personalized implementation plan (capped at 15)
If you’re ready to raise your standard, smash your ceiling, and discover who you really are…
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Results That Speak Louder Than Promises
From boardrooms to cockpits, from entrepreneurs to athletes, this work changes how men lead, love, and live.
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The Heart-led Man
Podcast
A show dedicated to men who want more from their performance, their life, and themselves. We explore health and wellbeing, high performance, leadership, mindset, men's psychology, and what it means to live deeply and lead powerfully as a man. This is for any man who refuses to settle, who knows there is another level available to him and is ready to find out what that looks like.
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We'll talk through where you are, surface what's holding you back, and map the next step.
