Evan Spargo
Men’s Performance Coach | ICF Master Certified Coach
Wellbeing. Deeper Living. Better Performance.
I help high-performing men perform at their best without compromising their wellbeing.
Sound Familiar?
"I'm killing it at work, but my health and relationships are suffering."
"I've achieved everything I set out to, and I still feel empty."
"I want to perform at my best, but it always comes at the cost of what matters most."
"I want to get to the next level of my performance, but I'm not willing to keep sacrificing my health and family to get there."
"I've tried everything to improve, but nothing sticks."
"I have everything I wanted, but I'm not enjoying any of it."
"Something is off, I just can't put my finger on it."
Whether you're a CEO, founder, executive, professional athlete or high-performing leader,
if those words landed, keep reading...
You're not burned out because you're weak. You're not empty because you chose wrong.
You're a high-performing man whose performance has outpaced his inner world.
Your body already knows it. The tension in your jaw. The tightness in your chest. The weight in your shoulders that won't leave no matter how hard you train, how much you rest, or how hard you push through.
You haven't collapsed… You're running on fumes.
And you know if something doesn't shift, it's only a matter of time until you collapse or even worse, facing the reality of stagnation and unfulfilled potential.
The problem doesn’t require more tactics, more optimisation, or more pushing through.
You've tried that, and it got you here.
The next level requires something different.
It requires understanding what's actually running the show underneath all the achievement, and changing it.
That's not soft work, that's the highest performance work there is, and it produces results that tactics never could.
That's exactly where I've spent the last 2,800 hours.
With executives who stopped white-knuckling their way through leadership and started actually enjoying it.
Athletes who broke through ceilings they'd been hitting for years.
Leaders who finally came home, not just physically, but actually present.
This work doesn't just make you feel better, it makes you perform better, at the highest level.
Without it costing you everything else.
There's a way through this, and it's closer than you think.
If you're ready to find out what's actually holding you back, let's talk.
About Evan
I know this territory because I've lived it.
I used to be the guy who wanted to disappear.
Shy. Quiet. Low self-worth. Nobody would have guessed I'd go on to play for the Philippines National 7s Rugby Team, speak on stages in front of 10,000 people, and spend 2,800+ hours coaching executives and high performers across the world.
But for years, the outside and the inside told completely different stories.
I had built my entire identity around achieving. The next milestone was always going to be the one that finally made me feel enough.
It never did.
When it finally broke, through heartbreak, financial loss, and bouts of depression, I had to stop trying to think my way out and start feeling what I'd been avoiding for decades.
I went through the fire, somatic work, shadow work, nervous system regulation, and men's brotherhood. It was then I found out what I was actually made of.
That process changed everything. Not because it was comfortable. Because it was finally real.
Now I channel all of it… the lived experience, the MCC credential, the years in elite sport, 10+ years in physical performance, into one focus:
Helping high-performing men perform at their best without compromising their wellbeing.
ICF Master Certified Coach (MCC) Top 3% globally
2,800+ hours coaching executives, leaders and athletes Former
International Rugby Player, Philippines National 7’s Team
10+ years experience as a Strength & Conditioning Coach
Founder of The Ascension Brotherhood
THE INNER FIRE METHOD™
A Science-Backed Framework for Elite Performance
Most high-performing men try to solve internal problems with external solutions.
More tactics. Harder work. Another optimisation system.
It doesn't work, because the ceiling isn't tactical. It's internal.
The Inner Fire Method™ integrates neuroscience, somatic psychology, and high-performance coaching to break through what's actually keeping you stuck, not the symptoms, the root.
Wake – Identify the patterns, blind spots, and beliefs driving the ceiling
Connect – Reconnect to your body, regulate your nervous system, build the foundation elite performance actually requires
Face – Confront what you've been avoiding, the wounds, triggers, and identity keeping you stuck
Break – Release the armour, disrupt old patterns, access the authentic power underneath
Rise – Build a new identity rooted in integration, grounded, present, confident without armour
Lead – Live it fully, at work, at home, in every room you walk into
This is how high-performing men stop hitting the same ceiling, and start performing at a level they didn't know was available to them.
Work With Me
Two Ways to Transform
1:1 Performance Coaching
12-Week Private Coaching for High-Performing Men
This is for you if:
You’re a high-performing man who is excelling on the outside but know something is quietly costing you everything else.
Not through more tactics, harder work, or another optimisation system. It’s understanding what's actually running the show underneath all the achievement, and changing it.
Body. Mind. Nervous system. Identity. Integrated.
What happens:
We work through the complete Inner Fire Method™ - a deep, structured, science-backed process that addresses what's actually creating the ceiling, not the symptoms, but the root.
You'll go from performing but not present, to showing up fully. At work, at home, in every room you walk into.
Sharper decisions under pressure. More energy and clarity. Leading with presence instead of force. Finally performing at your peak without it costing you everything else.
Two ways to work together:
The Intensive 12 Weeks | The Partnership 6 Months
Limited to 3–5 clients at any one time. By application only.
Click here to learn more:
The Ascension Brotherhood
The Brotherhood for Men Who Lead
An online global brotherhood for high-performing men and leaders who refuse to settle. If you’re looking for real challenge, higher standards, and a space to discover who you truly are, you belong here.
This isn’t another men’s group.
It’s a brotherhood for men who already carry weight for others, executives, coaches, founders, leaders, who want to raise their standards, break old patterns, and expand their identity alongside men who demand more from themselves and each other.
Inside the Ascension, you’ll:
Forge bonds that hold you to your highest standard, no more lone wolf
Get challenged to grow emotionally, mentally, and as a leader
Drop the mask, face your blind spots, and commit to transformation with depth, structure, and accountability
Wake up driven, clear, and on fire at work, at home, and in yourself
Master emotional intelligence, shadow integration, and grounded masculine leadership
Every quarter, we attack a new pillar of self leadership, through live workshops, men’s circles, and relentless accountability. You’ll walk out clearer, stronger, and more connected than ever.
Three Levels of Commitment:
Standard: Full access to weekly workshops, men’s circles, training vault, accountability, and private community
Premium: Everything in Standard, plus monthly 1:1, weekly Q&A, and a personalized implementation plan (capped at 15)
If you’re ready to raise your standard, smash your ceiling, and discover who you really are…
Click here to explore The Ascension Brotherhood and apply for a guest seat:
Not sure where to start?
Book a free 20-minute Clarity Call to uncover what’s holding you back and map your next steps.
Results That Speak Louder Than Promises
From boardrooms to cockpits, from entrepreneurs to athletes, this work changes how men lead, love, and live.
Meet Sergey, Senior Change Manager
Meet Dan, Senior Marketing Professional
Meet Chris, Co-Founder & COO
Meet Jerry, Marketing Manager
What Client’s Are Saying
The Heart-led Man
Podcast
A show dedicated to men who want more from their performance, their life, and themselves. We explore health and wellbeing, high performance, leadership, mindset, men's psychology, and what it means to live deeply and lead powerfully as a man. This is for any man who refuses to settle, who knows there is another level available to him and is ready to find out what that looks like.
Not sure where to start?
Book a free 20-minute Clarity Call with me
We’ll talk through your situation, uncover what’s holding you back, and map out the next steps to reclaim your edge and break through your performance ceiling.
