Hi, I’m Evan.

I could start by listing my credentials and achievements, but in a world overflowing with noise, I’d rather cut through it and share something real with you.

I wasn’t always the confident coach you may see today. I grew up painfully shy, speaking so little that people barely noticed I was there. My self-esteem? Practically non-existent. To cope, I leaned into perfectionism, people-pleasing, and over-achieving, convincing myself that the only way to feel worthy was to earn validation from others.

But behind the mask of "Mr. Nice Guy" was a storm I couldn’t control. I bottled up emotions, avoided conflict, and harshly criticized myself. Attention and achievements became my escape. Whether through sports, modeling, or chasing the spotlight, I was desperate to prove to the world—and to myself—that I was enough.

Yet no amount of external validation could silence the internal battles. The more I sought distractions, the deeper my unresolved wounds festered. My life spiraled into self-loathing, unfulfilling work, financial instability, and a painful lack of purpose.

Rock Bottom and a Turning Point
In my late 20s, I hit a breaking point. I couldn’t summon the motivation to get out of bed, and in a deep depression. My parents were covering my rent, abusing alcohol to cope, and I was drowning in self-hatred. That was the wake-up call I couldn’t ignore.

I began working with a coach, attended seminars, and faced the darkest parts of myself. Slowly, the fog lifted. I realized something profound: I had control over my reality. My thoughts, my beliefs, my actions—they were all my responsibility.

For the first time, I began unpacking the limiting beliefs that had followed me since childhood: “I’m not good enough,” “I don’t deserve success,” “I can’t be myself.” I confronted tough conversations I’d avoided for years and started doing the deep, uncomfortable inner work.