You are capable of more than you're currently living.
Not burnt out. Not falling apart. Just capable of more than you're currently living, and not sure how to close the gap.
You're not in crisis. You're not depleted.
If anything, you manage yourself better than most people around you.
But somewhere along the way, the fire went quiet, or it's there, and you can't find where to point it. Work doesn't pull you the way it used to. You've hit a ceiling you've stopped even noticing, or you can see exactly who you want to become and have no roadmap to get there. Either way, you're capable, and you're coasting, and you're privately wondering if this is it.
Nobody prepares you for this part. Nobody tells you that you can do everything right and still feel like you're watching your own life from the outside.
I know, because I've been there, competing at an elite level, seen as someone with it together, and privately falling apart underneath it. On paper, I was performing. Underneath it, I was running on nothing. I had to rebuild from depletion more than once.
What I found on the other side wasn't more achievement.
It was finally wanting something I deeply desired, instead of just chasing the next thing I thought I was supposed to want.
That's the work now.
WHAT CHANGES
What this actually looks like in your life:
You stop coasting on autopilot and get clear on what you actually want, not what you were supposed to want or settle for what’s already there
The gap between who you are and who you're capable of becoming starts closing, deliberately, not by accident
You reconnect to what used to drive you, the inner fire, or find what's replaced it
You take the ideas you keep shelving and actually build them
You stop watching your own life from the outside
WHAT THIS ISN’T
It isn't a mid-life crisis fix, or a hack to feel better for a week
It isn't more achievement, more optimisation, another system to push through
It isn't therapy, though many clients do both, and I'll tell you when something belongs there instead
It's direct, honest work on the gap between how your life looks and how it actually feels, grounded in real performance science, not just conversation.
TWO WAYS TO WORK WITH ME
Private 1:1 Coaching
With a vision for building something meaningful, our founder brings a blend of big-picture thinking and hands-on experience. They set the tone for everything we do.
The Ascension Brotherhood
A global community for men who refuse to settle, real challenge, higher standards, and a brotherhood of men who demand more from themselves and each other.
NOT SURE WHICH ONE?
1:1 coaching is deep, private, one-on-one work, open to any high performer, man or woman, built around exactly where you are and where you want to go.
The Ascension is a brotherhood, for men doing this work alongside each other, with structure, accountability, and real connection.
If you're not sure which fits, a discovery call is the fastest way to find out.
WHY WORK WITH ME
I know this territory because I've lived it.
I used to be the guy who wanted to disappear. Shy, quiet, low self-worth.
Nobody would have guessed I'd go on to play international rugby, speak on stages in front of 10,000 people, or spend 2,800+ hours coaching high performers around the world.
For years, the outside and the inside told completely different stories.
I'd built my whole identity around achieving, certain the next milestone would finally be the one that made it feel like enough. It never did.
It took hitting rock bottom to understand what was actually happening. I didn't need to achieve more. I needed to find out what I actually wanted, underneath everything I'd built to prove I was worth something.
That realisation is the reason I do this work, and it's why I trained with Hintsa Performance, the methodology used with F1 drivers and elite athletes, to make sure this work is built on real performance science, not just my own story.
Results That Speak Louder Than Promises
MCC (ICF) top 3% of coaches worldwide
Training with Hintsa Performance, the methodology trusted by F1 teams and elite athletes worldwide, completing October 2026
2,800+ hours coaching high performers, executives and athletes
International athlete competed for the Philippines National 7s Rugby Team
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What Clients Are Saying
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Deep, healing, and uplifting all at once.
"I have approached Evan because I was looking to find a way forward. I also felt like I needed to discover my own ‘voice’ and embody it in all aspects of my life. Working with Evan was magical. It was uplifting, deep, sometimes emotional, and definitely healing. He is a great coach and a human being with a big heart. He is very real and open. He knows how to take you to places in your soul where you may not go on your own. And in doing so, you feel guided and supported. I recommend working with Evan if you are serious about deep personal work and need an experienced facilitator to partner with you."
Sergey Helmar, Senior Change Manager
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Unlocked immense clarity.
"I have participated in several Development opportunities over my career, but nothing has been as challenging and rewarding as the time I spent with Evan. Working together for three months, Evan really challenged me and my mindset, helping me to uncover and see things which have unlocked immense clarity for me. I would highly recommend Evan to anyone out there and I look forward to working with him again one day."
Jackson Wilkes, Retail Property Manager
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I wish I'd done this sooner.
"Being coached by Evan helped me discover my path to a more alive and fulfilling life. On the surface everything seemed fine, but deep down I knew something was off and couldn't figure out what. Through our conversations, Evan uncovered the inner obstacle holding me back, and once I saw it, I was able to change it. I never thought I needed coaching. But after one powerful session I thought, 'I wish I'd done this sooner.' It was so impactful I recommended Evan to friends, and the same gratitude poured back from them."
Yen Yu, Business Owner
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Landed the role that changed everything.
“I've had the privilege of working with Evan as my coach and mentor for the past year, and the outcomes have been transformative and well beyond my expectations. Evan has been the guiding force behind the growth of my confidence and leadership skills, culminating in me landing a new role and progressing into the next chapter of my career.
He challenged me to be inquisitive about my upbringing and the motivations behind my goals, and tailored tools and strategies to navigate both personal and professional challenges. His guidance played a crucial role in my mindset growth and has set me on a path to realise my potential.”
Jerry Li, Investment Associate
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Safe, seen, and unstuck.
“Evan helps create a space for insights to drop in, and I always end up feeling so much more grounded and connected to life. Our six months together was beyond powerful and so meaningful for me as I navigated feelings of anxiety and a lack of clear direction.
Many coaches have great tools, but Evan goes above and beyond, helping me feel safe and seen, and asking powerful questions that unlock my own blocks. He's present in the moment, with what feels like an innate ability to help me move through limiting beliefs to find real answers, and a sense of peace.”
Liam O’Donnell, Business Owner & Actor
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More than half a dozen therapists couldn't do this.
“My experience working with Evan has been incredibly rewarding. I’ve seen half a dozen therapists over the years and few have done for me what Evan has. Evan treats our sessions with care, insight and such a safe space that I have been able to be my most vulnerable. This has allowed me to overcome difficulties I didn’t know possible. His approach allows for emotional, spiritual, and psychological growth and health. Honestly our sessions are astoundingly liberating and I feel so lucky to have found such a caring and talented person to help guide me on my journey. I leave every session amazed with the results.”
Alice Primrose, Nurse
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Focused, motivated, and myself again.
"I first contacted Evan because I was unhappy with the direction my career and personal lives were taking, which was having a negative impact on my health. I was struggling with sadness, anxiety, low self-esteem, and general negativity. I've been working with Evan for the past six weeks, and during our regular coaching sessions, which involve breath, body and mindset work, I've been able to identify the underlying causes of my mental health concerns and regain complete control over my life. After just a short period of time, I am already focused and motivated once more, having regained my former sense of self-worth and at last my zest for life!"
Lucas O’Brien, Airline Pilot
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Made me a better coach.
"I worked with Evan in a coaching and mentoring capacity in 2019 and recently re-enlisted his services on a 6-month coaching contract. As a coach, it is critical for me to continue to receive coaching to develop myself and Evan is well experienced and well positioned to provide this type of coaching. What attracted me to Evan’s coaching services is his authentic, no-nonsense style. Evan has a natural ability to get to the heart of the issue. Upon completion of the 6-month coaching contract, I find myself to be more effective at problem solving and a better coach. Highly recommend."
Kelly Gough, HR Leader
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Better, personally and professionally.
"I recommend Evan as a great coach. His warm and engaging approach with clear techniques enabled me to identify the personal barriers that were affecting the way i was addressing some issues at work. Evan guided me through a process that challenged me to identify and acknowledge some beliefs that were impacting my capacity to reach my true potential. I am now in a much better place both personally and professionally thanks to the work i have done with Evans skilful guidance and support."
Dr. David Sykes, Business Development Manager
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Outstanding through high-pressure situations.
"My life changed when I met Evan. His ability to work with me through high pressure situations and issues I face daily with work and family life was outstanding. I’m a different person today… a better one!"
Luke Pace, Founder & CEO
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Took control, and built something of my own.
"Coaching with Evan helped me towards reaching self-fulfilment and to take more control of my life. As a result of our coaching, I gained a lot of value as I created my own company and now have time to go and find my own clients. I now get to see my children and family more often, and help more people through my work."
Gaurav Rai, Hotel General Manger
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He is life-changing.
“Evan is world-class. That very well may be an understatement. I regularly internalise my emotions and convince myself that certain things in life don’t affect me. These things inevitably overflow and I’m so grateful that I have Evan to turn to when I’m experiencing turmoil. I have never walked away from a session without greater clarity, understanding and resolution than when I came in. He is life-changing. Thank you Evan!"
Matthew Vacirca, Founder & High School Teacher
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