For high-performing men ready to lead with purpose, presence, and peace, without losing themselves or the people they love.

You’ve built success. You lead teams, run businesses, make decisions under pressure. On the outside, you look composed.

But inside? You’re carrying a quiet weight. You’re tired of doing it all alone. Your mind never slows down. You crave more than just performance, you want to feel grounded, clear, and connected.

This isn’t traditional coaching. This is deep, strategic, identity-level transformation, for the man who’s ready to elevate how he leads, lives, and loves.

This is for you if….

  • You’re successful, but something still feels off, a quiet restlessness, a sense that there’s more.

  • You’re always switched on, but rarely present.

  • You’ve mastered control… but you’re craving calm.

  • Your relationship feels disconnected, and you don’t know how to bridge the gap.

  • You’ve outgrown the hustle, and want to lead from depth, not pressure.

  • You’ve achieved the goals, but feel disconnected from a deeper sense of purpose and meaning.

    If you saw yourself in 2 or more of these, you’re in the right place.

1:1 Coaching for High-Performing Men

Private mentorship for high-performing men ready to lead with purpose, presence, and power.

This isn’t life coaching. This is strategic identity transformation for men who are done just performing, and ready to embody their next level of leadership.

This private container is designed for the man who:

  • Has built success, but knows he’s not operating from his full power

  • Wants to feel calm and grounded while still performing at the highest level

  • Feels the pressure of leadership but craves depth, meaning, and presence

  • Is ready to connect to a deeper purpose, one that fuels his next evolution

This isn’t about more achievement. It’s about becoming the kind of man who leads from within, clear, grounded, and untouchable.

What You’ll Walk Away With:

  • Mental clarity that drives decisive action in high-stakes moments

  • A grounded nervous system that keeps you calm under pressure, in business and at home

  • Presence that elevates your influence, leadership, and intimacy

  • A relationship built on connection, not conflict or distance

  • The ability to access flow without burnout, tension, or force

  • Reconnection to a deeper sense of purpose that fuels fulfilment, not just achievement

  • Inner stability that makes you unstoppable, regardless of external wins or losses

This is the work that doesn't just upgrade your mindset. It transforms how you show up in every room you walk into, boardroom, bedroom, and beyond.

"I have participated in several development opportunities over my career, but nothing has been as challenging and rewarding as the time I spent with Evan.” - Jackson

Why It Works

I’m a Master Certified Coach (MCC) with over 2,800 hours of experience coaching elite men across the globe, founders, executives, athletes, and creatives. What they all had in common? They were still performing, but they weren’t leading from who they truly are.

That’s what this work unlocks.

My method is built around one core idea: You don’t need to do more, you need to become more of who you already are

My Signature Method: The Inner Fire Method

A 6-stage process built to transform high-performing men into grounded, present, powerful leaders.

  • Wake – Spot the hidden patterns driving your stress or disconnection

  • Feel – Reclaim access to your body, breath, and emotions

  • Face – Meet the shadow that’s been shaping your reactions

  • Heal – Address the part of you that’s been trying to prove or perform

  • Rise – Reinvent your identity based on truth, not titles

  • Lead – Show up in life, love, and leadership as your whole self

You won’t just learn. You’ll integrate. Embody. Become.

This work is designed to meet you at your edge, and expand who you are on the other side of it.

What my coaching is not:

My coaching isn't about rehashing painful memories or endless talk therapy. It's a powerful, action-oriented approach designed to help you break through emotional barriers and achieve tangible results. We won't waste time on vision boards or generic affirmations. Instead, we'll tackle the root causes of your challenges head-on, bridging the gap between where you are and where you want to be.

This is not for the man who wants:

  • Band-aid fixes or generic mindset coaching

  • To rehash old stories without movement

  • To stay in his comfort zone

This is for the man who:

  • Leads a big life, but is ready to do it with more depth

  • Knows his next level starts within

  • Is ready to take radical responsibility and do the work

Ready to lead with calm, clarity, and connection?

Apply for a private discovery call.

This is an application-only container for high-performing men who are ready to lead from who they truly are, without sacrificing their peace, power, or the people they love.

3 Months Container

The Gateway to Emotional Power, Presence & Purpose

  • This is for the man whose external success has outpaced his internal foundation until now. It’s not about doing more. It’s about recalibrating the system you lead your life from.

    This isn’t personal development.
    It’s a recalibration of your emotional operating system, so you can lead with precision, power, and inner peace.

    You’ll be guided through my Inner Fire Method™, a 6-stage transformation journey that brings you back to peace, purpose, and personal power, from the inside out.

    Whether you choose weekly or fortnightly support, every session is designed to deliver deep internal shifts that ripple into every area of your life.

  • Option 1: The Focused Breakthrough

    For the man who moves fast and values depth. A lean, potent experience.

    • 6 x Fortnightly 90-minute sessions (over 3 months)

    • Tailored integration assignments for maximum impact between sessions

    • Email support for urgent breakthroughs (response within 24–48 hours)

    Ideal for: Men who thrive independently but want a structured, expert-guided breakthrough.

    Investment: $1800 USD
    Payment Plan: $650 USD x 3 months

  • The Accelerated Transformation

    For the man ready to fast-track his emotional evolution and internal leadership.

    • 12 x Weekly 60-minute coaching sessions (over 3 months)

    • Comprehensive initial assessment + strategic roadmap

    • Weekly accountability, tracking & recalibration

    • Unlimited email, text, and voice note support (24-hour response time)

    • 1x Emergency “SOS” call (30 minutes)

    • Premium Access to The Ascension Men’s Community for 3 months

    • 1 x reset intensive session post-program

    Ideal for: Men who are all-in on transformation and want powerful weekly momentum, accountability, and consistent coaching presence.

    Investment: $3600 USD 

    Payment Plan: $1250 USD x 3 months

    *less than the cost of a high-level retreat, yet with triple the depth, structure, and ongoing transformation.”

  • Our 90-Day Results Roadmap:

    ✔ Silence the inner critic and break free from cycles of overthinking, anxiety, and sabotage

    ✔ Reignite emotional connection and intimacy in your relationship, no more numbness or distance

    ✔ Show up decisively in high-stakes conversations with clients, teams, and your partner, without spiraling into self-doubt.

    ✔ Rewire the hidden drivers that keep you stuck in overachieving, pleasing, or pressure mode

    ✔ Make faster, cleaner decisions from a calm internal state, even under intense pressure.

    ✔ Regulate your nervous system and lead from embodied power in high-stakes moments

    ✔ Hold emotional intensity, speak your truth, and move with purpose, in life, love, and leadership

    Progress Reassurance:

    If you don’t experience measurable internal shifts by Month 2, we’ll redesign your game plan or extend our work at no cost. Because when you commit to this work, I commit to your results.

    Case Study:
    "I've been working with Evan for the past six weeks, and during our regular coaching sessions, which involve breath, body and mindset work, I've been able to identify the underlying causes of my mental health concerns and regain complete control over my life. After just a short period of time, I am already focused and motivated once more, having regained my former sense of self-worth and at last my zest for life!" - Lucas O

    Apply Now:
    This is an application-only container for men who are serious about change and committed to leading themselves powerfully.

6 Months Container

Mastery, Identity, & Intimacy: The Deep Recalibration

  • A high-performance transformation experience for the man who’s done with performing, pleasing, or pretending and ready to permanently upgrade the way he leads, loves, and lives.

    Whether you’re scaling a business, navigating an identity shift, or leading others while quietly losing yourself in the process… this is the inner recalibration you didn’t know you needed, but always sensed was missing.

    The shifts you make in these 6 months will ripple across the next 6 years through your business, your relationship, and your internal state of calm power.

    Why This Isn’t Like Other Coaching

    Most programs teach mindset.
    This rewires your identity.

    Most containers give advice.
    I show you how to lead yourself, no matter the storm.

    This is elite-level mentorship for high-performing men ready to reclaim what performance, pressure, and success forced them to abandon:

    • Their emotional clarity

    • Their authentic leadership

    • The man beneath the mask

  • Option 1: The Strategic Mastery Journey

    For the high-performer who values deep reflection, strategic implementation, and space between sessions to integrate.

    • 12 x Fortnightly 90-minute sessions over 6 months

    • Comprehensive initial assessment & goal alignment session

    • Tailored integration assignments + curated support materials

    • Ongoing strategic recalibration based on personal evolution

    • 2x Emergency “SOS” calls (30 minutes)

    • Email support between sessions (24–48 hr response)

    • Standard Access to The Ascension Men’s Community

    • 1 x reset intensive session post-program

    Ideal for: Men seeking high-level transformation with time to implement deeply between sessions.

    Investment: $3600 USD 

    Payment Plan: $650 USD x 6 months

  • Option 2: The Quantum Shift: Personal Mastery

    (Only 3 Quantum Shift spots available per quarter to ensure depth)

    For the man who’s done with surface-level change and wants full-spectrum transformation across identity, leadership, and relationships, fast.

    • 24 x Weekly 60-minute coaching sessions over 6 months

    • Personalised strategic roadmap built from deep onboarding process

    • Weekly progress reviews & course correction

    • Unlimited email, text, and voice note support (24 hr response)

    • 3 x Emergency “SOS” calls (30 minutes)

    • Premium Access to The Ascension Men’s Community

    • 1 x reset intensive session post-program

    • Bonus: Priority access to men’s retreats & immersive intensives

    Ideal for: Visionary leaders and professionals ready to move at pace, with high-touch support, deep accountability, and full commitment to their evolution.

    Investment: $6900 USD 

    Payment Plan: $1185 USD x 6 months

  • Your 6-Month Mastery Outcomes:

    ✔ Recalibrate your emotional operating system, shift from reactive and overwhelmed to grounded, regulated, and precise under pressure

    ✔ Rebuild emotional safety and attraction in your intimate relationship create connection, trust, and polarity without needing to perform

    ✔ Navigate high-stakes moments in business and life with calm, clarity, and conviction

    ✔ End performance-based self-worth build unshakable confidence rooted in identity, not achievement

    ✔ Become unshakeably grounded in who you are, no more shapeshifting to please, prove, or be needed

    ✔ Develop a high-performance daily practice, fuel your energy, focus, and purpose with consistency

    ✔ Hold emotional intensity like a leader, guide others while staying deeply rooted in yourself

    ✔ Integrate tools that serve you for life, long after our work ends, you’ll be able to lead through pressure, uncertainty, and transformation

    ✔ Leave with a permanent upgrade in how you see yourself, show up in relationships, and lead your mission

    Success didn’t break you, disconnection did. And now it’s time to come home to yourself.

    Authority Reassurance: This container is led by Evan Spargo: Master Certified Coach (ICF MCC), 2500+ hours of coaching experience, international athlete, and founder of The Ascension Men’s Community. You’re hiring a partner in lifelong transformation, one who’s walked through the fire and built the frameworks to guide you through your own.


    “My life changed when I met Evan. His ability to work with me through high pressure situations and issues I face daily with work and family life was outstanding. I’m a different person today… a better one!” - Luke P

    Apply Now: Entry into this container is by application only. Serious inquiries from men ready to step fully into their next evolution.

12 Months - The ‘All In’ Journey

The Sovereign Man: Elite Yearlong Leadership & Mastery Experience (Limit to 5 per year)

  • For the man who’s ready to build a legacy and fulfil their soul’s mission, not just a life.

    This is a rare, invitation-only experience for high-performing men who have reached the top of their game but know something deeper is calling. You’ve already built success. Now you’re here to master yourself, lead powerfully, and become unshakable in every domain of life.

    This isn’t coaching. It’s a complete identity recalibration and leadership evolution, one that permanently changes how you move, speak, love, and lead.

    You will be held to the highest standard you’ve ever experienced.

  • The 12-Month Transformation Includes:

    • Weekly 60-minute private coaching sessions

    • A personalized 12-month strategic roadmap updated quarterly

    • Unlimited voice, text, and email support (24 hr response)

    • 4 x Emergency "SOS" calls for high-stakes or emotional moments

    • Premium Access to The Ascension Men’s Community for 12 months

    • NEW: Admission ticket to 1 x Men’s Retreat (Flights excluded)

    • NEW: Quarterly Relationship & Intimacy Check-ins (optional partner inclusion)

  • What You’ll Walk Away With:

    • Complete emotional sovereignty and nervous system mastery

    • Deep trust in yourself and the ability to lead under pressure

    • The end of imposter syndrome, perfectionism, and performance-based worth

    • Repaired or completely transformed relationships (or the clarity to walk away)

    • Unshakeable inner leadership, no more outsourcing your power

    • A clear purpose and mission, with the energy and alignment to fulfil it

    • A new identity: not just a successful man, but a sovereign one

    This work stays with you for life. The man who enters this container will not be the one who walks out. This is not about improvement. This is about rebirth.

    Investment: USD $10,800 Upfront (Save $1200)

    Payment Options: USD $1000 x 12 or $3600 × 4

    Apply Below: Entry into this container is by application only. You must be ready to lead yourself with full commitment and no fallback plan.

    APPLY NOW

  • CLIENT STORY: From Self-Doubt to Sovereign Leadership

    Jerry Li, Investment Associate

    Jerry came to me successful on paper, but spinning internally. As a high-achieving financial analyst, he constantly second-guessed himself, feared judgment in meetings, and carried a pressure to always get things right. His anxiety was quiet, but it controlled everything, his career, his confidence, his relationships.

    His Challenges:

    • Overthinking & Anxiety: A relentless inner critic and constant loop of self-doubt.

    • Fear of Judgment: Avoided speaking up, worried about being wrong or seen as inadequate.

    • No Clear Definition of Success: Chasing external validation without internal fulfillment.

    • Decision Paralysis: Struggled to trust his own instincts, defaulted to over-analysis.

    • Lack of Presence: Rarely felt grounded, always thinking ahead, rarely enjoying now.

    Our Work Together:

    What Jerry thought he needed was more confidence. What he actually needed was clarity and integration. Through deep identity work, shadow exploration, and emotional recalibration, Jerry learned to trust his decisions, speak with certainty, and navigate life without spiraling into self-doubt.

    He developed emotional awareness, tools for nervous system regulation, and the ability to see himself beyond performance. As a result, he stopped outsourcing his power, and started leading from it.

    The Breakthrough:

    Jerry landed a new leadership role with greater responsibility and significantly higher pay, something he previously believed was “out of reach.” More importantly, he felt ready for it. The transformation was evident not just in his job title, but in the way he walked, spoke, and showed up calm, grounded, and certain of who he is.

    His Words:

    “I’ve had the privilege of working with Evan as my coach and mentor for the past year, and I can confidently say that the experience and outcomes have been transformative and well beyond my expectations. Through our sessions together, Evan has been the guiding force behind the growth of my confidence, leadership skills, and ability to face challenges with excitement and optimism, culminating in me landing a new role that has enabled me to progress into the next chapter of my career.

    Evan demonstrated an exceptional ability to challenge me to be inquisitive about my upbringing, past experiences, and the motivations behind my goals. Not only did Evan provide invaluable and memorable insights, but he also tailored tools and strategies to help me navigate both personal and professional challenges. In each conversation, his guidance played a crucial role in my mindset growth, the tug-of-war against an overthinking persona, and has set me on a path to realise my potential.

    If you’re seeking a coach who can help you unlock your leadership potential, build your confidence, and transform how you approach challenges across all aspects of life, I would wholeheartedly recommend Evan. His commitment to helping others thrive, combined with his expertise, experience, and genuine passion and care, makes him an outstanding mentor.”

What clients are saying:

  • "I first contacted Evan because I was unhappy with the direction my career and personal lives were taking, which was having a negative impact on my health. I was struggling with sadness, anxiety, low self-esteem, and general negativity. I've been working with Evan for the past six weeks, and during our regular coaching sessions—which involve breath, body and mindset work—I've been able to identify the underlying causes of my mental health concerns and regain complete control over my life. After just a short period of time, I am already focused and motivated once more, having regained my former sense of self-worth and at last my zest for life!"

    Lucas O’Brien

  • "I have approached Evan because I was looking to find a way forward. I also felt like I needed to discover my own ‘voice’ and embody it in all aspects of my life. Working with Evan was magical. It was uplifting, deep, sometimes emotional, and definitely healing. He is a great coach and a human being with a big heart. He is very real and open. He knows how to take you to places in your soul where you may not go on your own. And in doing so, you feel guided and supported. I recommend working with Evan if you are serious about deep personal work and need an experienced facilitator to partner with you."

    Sergey Helmar

  • "I have participated in several Development opportunities over my career, but nothing has been as challenging and rewarding as the time I spent with Evan. Working together for three months, Evan really challenged me and my mindset, helping me to uncover and see things which have unlocked immense clarity for me. I would highly recommend Evan to anyone out there and I look forward to working with him again one day."

    Jackson Wilkes

  • I’ve had the privilege of working with Evan as my coach and mentor for the past year, and I can confidently say that the experience and outcomes have been transformative and well beyond my expectations. Through our sessions together, Evan has been the guiding force behind the growth of my confidence, leadership skills, and ability to face challenges with excitement and optimism, culminating in me landing a new role that has enabled me to progress into the next chapter of my career. Evan demonstrated an exceptional ability to challenge me to be inquisitive about my upbringing, past experiences, and the motivations behind my goals. Not only did Evan provide invaluable and memorable insights, but he also tailored tools and strategies to help me navigate both personal and professional challenges. In each conversation, his guidance played a crucial role in my mindset growth, the tug-of-war against an overthinking persona, and has set me on a path to realise my potential.

    Jerry Li

  • "Evan helps create a space for insights to drop in, and I always end up feeling so much more grounded and connected to life. Our 6-months together was beyond powerful and so meaningful for me as I’ve been navigating feelings of extreme anxiety plus a sense of lacking any clear direction.  Many coaches and practitioners have lots of great tools to help, but Evan is above and beyond when it comes to helping me feel safe, seen and asks very powerful questions that help unlock my own blocks. The best part of working with Ev is that he is present in the moment, and has what is seemingly an innate ability to help me move through blocks & limiting beliefs to find answers to the questions that keep me stuck, and most importantly a sense of peace!"

    Liam O’Donnell

  • "I would definitely recommend Evan's services to friends, colleagues and even family. I engaged with Evan at a later date to help me better understand my team at work, his input was very insightful and helpful to me better understanding how each individual operates. I would strongly recommend this to any business leader. “If you want different results than what you’re getting, you have to try different approaches."

    Martin Cerantonio

  • "My experience working with Evan has been incredibly rewarding. I’ve seen half a dozen therapists over the years and few have done for me what Evan has. Evan treats our sessions with care, insight and such a safe space that I have been able to be my most vulnerable. This has allowed me to overcome difficulties I didn’t know possible. His approach allows for emotional, spiritual, and psychological growth and health. Honestly our sessions are astoundingly liberating and I feel so lucky to have found such a caring and talented person to help guide me on my journey. I leave every session amazed with the results."

    Alex M

  • "My life changed when I met Evan. His ability to work with me through high pressure situations and issues I face daily with work and family life was outstanding. I’m a different person today… a better one!"

    Luke Pace

  • "Coaching with Evan helped me towards reaching self-fulfilment and to take more control of my life. As a result of our coaching, I gained a lot of value as I created my own company and now have time to go and find my own clients. I now get to see my children and family more often, and help more people through my work."

    Gaurav Rai

  • “Evan is world-class. That very well may be an understatement. I regularly internalise my emotions and convince myself that certain things in life don’t affect me. These things inevitably overflow and I’m so grateful that I have Evan to turn to when I’m experiencing turmoil. I have never walked away from a session without greater clarity, understanding and resolution than when I came in.” He IS life-changing. Thank you Evan!"

    Matthew Vacirca

  • "I recommend Evan as a great coach. His warm and engaging approach with clear techniques enabled me to identify the personal barriers that were affecting the way i was addressing some issues at work. Evan guided me through a process that challenged me to identify and acknowledge some beliefs that were impacting my capacity to reach my true potential. I am now in a much better place both personally and professionally thanks to the work i have done with Evans skilful guidance and support."

    Dr. David Sykes

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