Awaken the Inner Fire
This is a transformational retreat where high-performing men come to reclaim the fire, freedom, and presence they lost chasing success.
Coming Soon in 2025 | Hosted in Australia
You’ve Built the Life. But You’re Starving Inside.
You lead people.
You’ve built the career, the income, the reputation.
You’re the man others count on, the strong one. The grounded one.
But when the noise dies down, something feels off.
There’s a pressure in your chest you can’t explain.
A quiet restlessness. A growing disconnect.
You’ve done everything right,
yet you can’t shake the feeling that you barely recognise the man in the mirror.
You’ve spent years performing:
For success. For certainty. For survival.
And sure, you’ve won.
But somewhere along the way, you stopped feeling like yourself.
Even with everything you’ve built,
you’re left wondering: “Why the fuck do I still feel this way?”
Maybe a major crisis cracked everything open and shook your entire life… A breakup. A divorce. A death. A collapse you didn’t see coming.
Or maybe nothing happened, except the realisation that this isn’t who you want to be anymore.
You’ve become excellent at holding it all together,
but you’re exhausted from never letting it fall apart.
This isn’t just about stress.
It’s about soul loss.
The kind that shows up in your relationship.
In your silence.
In the space between you and the man you know you could be.
This isn’t a retreat to escape your life.
It’s a reckoning.
A return to the man underneath the armour.
A space to reclaim your fire.
To lead from depth.
To finally feel free in your own skin.
Because if not now… When?
The Work We’ll Do Together
This retreat isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about stripping away everything you’ve had to become just to survive.
The masks.
The armour.
The constant need to perform.
So you can return to the man you were before the world told you who to be.
Through a carefully designed arc of experiences, you’ll move through:
Clearing emotional blockages that have weighed on you for years
Reclaiming your suppressed masculine fire, the energy that drives purpose, presence, and primal power
Strengthening your nervous system, so you can lead under pressure without shutting down or checking out
Deepening your emotional capacity, so you can stop numbing and start feeling again, without fear
Breaking the cycle of disconnection in your relationships, and finally lead from grounded presence, truth, and heart
This isn’t self-help.
This is sacred men’s work.
Physical. Emotional. Spiritual. Primal.
You won’t walk out the same man.
The fire was never lost.
It’s been buried beneath your silence…
waiting to be claimed
Who This Is For:
This retreat is for the man who knows it’s time.
✔️ He’s done the work, but deep down… something still feels missing.
✔️ He’s a leader on the outside, but feels like a fraud on the inside, quietly struggling with anxiety, emptiness, or pressure no one sees
✔️ He’s navigating (or still recovering from) a major life shift.
A breakup. A divorce. A death. A career upheaval. A full identity unraveling.
✔️ He knows he’s been performing for approval, and is ready to lead from truth instead.
✔️ He’s tired of reading leadership books that don’t address what’s really going on: disconnection, emotional suppression, and deep loneliness
✔️ He feels like he’s lost touch with his emotions, or never fully learned how to feel them in the first place, and it’s costing his relationship.
✔️He wants to become a grounded, emotionally present leader, in life, love, and in his career.
✔️ He’s not looking for comfort. He’s craving brotherhood, challenge, and raw, honest growth.
✔️ He’s ready to stop running from himself, and break the cycle of self-sabotage, avoidance, and silent self-destruction.
This is for the man who doesn’t need more strategy.
He needs space. Fire. Feeling. Truth.
This Is Not For You If:
❌ You’re looking for a casual, surface-level “wellness escape”, with no depth.
❌ You want someone to give you all the answers or fix you.
❌ You’re unwilling to take full responsibility for your emotions, patterns, and choices.
❌ You’re not open to being challenged, seen, or called forward by other men.
❌ You’re not ready to invest your time, energy, and presence into real transformation.
This retreat is not therapy. It’s not a coaching intensive.
It’s a sacred space for men ready to become the kind of leader others can feel, trust, and follow, because he leads from who he is, not what he knows. A man who desires freedom.
Not ready for the group experience?
I also work 1:1 with a small number of men each quarter who want to go deep, privately.
If you feel called to this work but prefer a more personal container, [click here] to explore private mentorship.
This is What Real Leadership Looks Like
You’ve done the workshops.
You’ve studied the models.
You know how to lead a team, drive results, make decisions under pressure.
But leadership isn’t just about performance.
It’s about presence.
It’s about depth.
It’s about being the kind of man others can trust, not just follow.
This retreat isn’t professional development.
It’s personal evolution.
Here, we strip away the masks.
We get to the root of what’s been quietly sabotaging your power.
And we initiate a deeper form of leadership, one that starts in the body, and ripples out into every part of your life.
What You'll Experience:
Sacred Rage Activation
You’ve spent your life either suppressing your anger to keep the peace or allowing it to control you. Here, you’ll finally let it move, not in violence, but in power. Release the pressure you’ve buried in your chest and reclaim the part of you that’s been silenced.
Shadow Work & Shame Integration
The parts of you you hide are the ones running your life. It’s time to bring them into the light. Not to fix them but to meet them with truth, and stop them from unconsciously sabotaging your love, success, and peace.
Guided Breathwork & Somatic Healing
You don’t need more thinking, you need release. Access deep emotional breakthroughs, altered states of clarity, and nervous system healing through conscious breath and body-led processes.
Masculine Leadership, Presence & Polarity Practices
Reclaim your grounded masculine presence and access the energy that allows you to be fully present, emotionally available, and confidently expressed in life and in intimacy.
Brotherhood, Challenge & Reflection
You’ve done it all alone for long enough. In this space, there’s nowhere to hide and no need to. Be seen. Be challenged. Be called forward by other powerful men who are done pretending.
Space to rest, reflect, and be in solitude without pressure or performance.
Private retreat location in Australia.
Full details coming soon.
What You’ll Walk Away With:
This isn’t a retreat for information.
It’s an embodied initiation that stays with you long after you leave.
You won’t return the same man, you’ll return more of who you really are.
You’ll walk away with:
✔️ A calmer, more grounded nervous system, able to lead others from presence, not pressure
✔️ The emotional capacity to breakthrough patterns of self-sabotage that have held you back for years
✔️ Tools to quiet the inner critic and reclaim confidence from the inside out
✔️ Clarity of direction and purpose, not from strategy, but from inner alignment and embodied truth
✔️ The presence and emotional intelligence to lead your relationship with calm strength and honesty
✔️ A brotherhood of powerful men who see you, challenge you, and support you, long after the retreat ends
✔️ A deeper connection to your intuition, your body, and the parts of yourself you’ve learned to suppress or hide
✔️ The tools and awareness to integrate your shadow (even the messy or hidden parts) into your leadership
✔️ Real self-trust, born not from mindset… but from embodiment
You Know If This Is for You…
You don’t need more time to think.
You need space to feel.
To listen.
To remember what’s always been inside you, the fire, the clarity, the calm you’ve been searching for under all the pressure.
This isn’t a casual getaway.
It’s not a self-help weekend.
This is a sacred initiation into your next chapter of leadership, where you’ll meet the man underneath the mask, achievements, performance, and lead from truth.
You’ll leave lighter.
Stronger.
More grounded.
And more you than you’ve ever felt.
The fire is already in you.
This is your time to awaken it.
Register Your Interest for the Upcoming 2025 Australia Retreat
What Men Are Saying About Working With Evan
“I came to Evan feeling lost in both my career and personal life. I was anxious, low on self-esteem, and completely drained. In just six weeks of breath, body, and mindset work, I’ve regained my focus, my self-worth, and my zest for life.”
- Lucas O'Brien
“I’ve done plenty of personal development over the years, but nothing challenged and shifted me like working with Evan. In just three months, he helped me uncover blind spots that brought immense clarity to every part of my life.”
- Jackson Wilkes
“I’ve worked with therapists, but few have impacted me like Evan has. His sessions create such a safe space that I’ve been able to access parts of myself I didn’t know were there. The emotional, spiritual, and psychological growth I’ve experienced has been life-changing.”
- Alex M
Prefer to hear it straight from the men themselves?
Meet Your Facilitator
Evan Spargo is a Master Certified Coach (MCC). A credential held by fewer than 4% of coaches worldwide, with over 2,500 hours of professional coaching experience. He’s worked with high-performing men, business owners, athletes, and leaders around the world, helping them move from silent pressure and emotional suppression to embodied confidence, inner peace, and relational strength.
Before coaching, Evan competed as an international level athlete, and has spent the past 5 years mastering the emotional, physical, and psychological territory of modern masculinity.
He’s not just experienced, he’s trained, certified, and trauma-aware.
His formal training includes:
MCC Certification (International Coaching Federation, over 500 hours of training, top 4% of credentialed coaches globally)
Trained Sacred Rage Facilitator – The Embodied Man Institute
Mental Health First Aider – Certified through Mental Health First Aid Australia
How to Work With Men – Facilitation training with Connor Beaton (ManTalks)
Over 500+ men personally coached 1:1, across life, leadership, relationships and sport
Evan blends:
The structure and mastery of elite coaching
The depth of emotional and shadow work
The safety of trauma-informed, heart-led facilitation
The grounded presence of a man who’s lived this path
This isn’t a retreat for improvement.
It’s a container for transformation and Evan is the kind of man you can trust to take you there.
Why I created this Retreat?
Because I know what it’s like to live with a fire inside you… and still feel numb.
I know what it’s like to look externally “successful” and “have it all-together”,
while quietly in pain, anxious and struggling to stay connected to yourself.
For years, I performed.
I led. I pushed. I held it all together.
But underneath it all… I was starving for something real.
Real brotherhood.
Real feeling.
Real freedom.
This retreat was born from that journey.
From the pain I avoided.
From the shame I carried.
From the work I’ve done to finally come home to myself.
Everything I’ve learned through years of men’s work, emotional mastery, embodiment, leadership, and my own dark breakdowns…
I’ve poured into this space.
This isn’t a retreat built from theory.
It’s built from lived experience.
From everything I wish I had when I needed it most.
So if there’s a part of you that’s tired of holding it all together…
that’s ready to feel again…
that’s ready to remember who the fuck you are…
This was made for you.
