Evan Spargo
Men’s Leadership &
Transformation Coach
You’ve built the career, the business, the status.
But somewhere along the way, you hit a ceiling.
The passion that once fuelled you has dimmed. The edge that made you unstoppable feels dull.
For high-performing men, entrepreneurs, executives, athletes, and professionals, who refuse to settle under ceilings and demand to perform, lead, and love at their absolute peak.
What’s costing you your edge?
You’ve achieved more than most. You’ve built, performed, led. But lately, it’s like you’re running at 80%.
This isn’t laziness. It isn’t burnout. It’s the hidden patterns that cost you time, energy, and presence when you need them most.
This short quiz reveals what’s dulling your fire, and how to sharpen your edge again so you can perform at your true peak under pressure.
About Evan
I don’t just help men “improve.”
I help ambitious men break through the ceilings that success alone couldn’t, and reclaim the fire and edge that make them unstoppable in business, in love, and in life.
I’m Evan Spargo, a Men’s Leadership & Transformation Coach (ICF Master Certified Coach, MCC) with over 2,800 hours coaching high performing men worldwide, CEOs, entrepreneurs, athletes, and professionals.
Before coaching, I represented the Philippines as an international athlete. On the outside, I was calm, capable, and confident. On the inside, I was anxious, burning out, and disconnected.
For years I swung between extremes, all edge (driven, successful, but restless and empty) and all fire (heart-led, passionate, but complacent and passive). The breakthrough came when I learned to combine both.
Now, through my Inner Fire Method™, I guide high-performing men to:
End the internal war that keeps them stuck at 80%
Lead powerfully under pressure without burning out
Reignite intimacy at home so love fuels them instead of draining them
Build a legacy of performance and presence
I’m also the founder of The Ascension, a global men’s community for those ready to rise together, no masks, no posturing, just truth and leadership.
Because when a man has both fire and edge? He doesn’t just perform. He becomes unstoppable.
The Relationship Reset Guide: Make Her Feel Safe Again
Turn distance, tension, and frustration into trust, intimacy, and connection, for just $9.
If she’s pulling away, always frustrated, or no longer looking at you the way she used to… it’s not because you’re not trying hard enough.
It’s because she doesn’t feel safe.
This guide gives you the exact tools I teach my private clients to shift that fast.
Inside, you’ll learn:
The 5-Trait Framework that moves her from guarded → open
How to lead with calm presence (even in conflict)
A step-by-step Weekly Relationship Check-In Kit you can use together
Grounding practices to stay steady when you’re triggered
Apply what’s inside and she will feel the difference in weeks, not years.
Stop guessing what she needs.
Become the man she can finally relax with.
My Signature Method: The Inner Fire Method
A 6-stage process built to transform high-performing men into grounded, fire-fueled, edge-sharpened leaders:
Wake – Spot the hidden patterns driving stress and stagnation, so you stop repeating the same mistakes under pressure.
Feel – Reconnect to body, breath, and emotion, so you access calm presence on demand, even in high-stakes moments.
Face – Expose the blind spots that hold you back, so hesitation, overthinking, and sabotage stop costing you wins.
Break – Shatter the patterns that burn energy and dull your edge, so every move comes from clarity and strength.
Rise – Build unshakable identity rooted in truth, not titles, so confidence is who you are, not what you achieve.
Lead – Step into business, love, and life as a fire-fueled, edge-sharpened leader, so every room you walk into, from boardroom to bedroom, you own with clarity and conviction.
You won’t just learn this work. You’ll embody it. And it will change how you move, lead, and love, forever.
Work With Me
Deep transformation for men ready to lead from within.
1:1 Coaching
Private mentorship for ambitious men ready to break through ceilings and lead with Fire & Edge.
This isn’t mindset coaching.
It’s a full recalibration of who you are, so you perform, love, and lead at your peak under pressure, without burning out or blowing up what matters most.
You’ve built the career, the business, the life.
But if you’re honest… you’ve hit a plateau.
✔ You’re still moving, but not at your true peak.
✔ You’ve got the edge, but the fire is fading.
✔ Or the fire is strong, but the edge is dull.
Inside this private coaching container, I guide you through my Inner Fire Method™, a proven 6-stage process that brings both sides back online:
Break through ceilings in performance, leadership, and love
Reignite your fire (passion, presence, aliveness)
Sharpen your edge (clarity, decisiveness, ability to execute under pressure)
Strip out hesitation and head noise so you win back 5–10 hours a week
Lead with calm authority, so teams execute faster, clients trust you instantly, and family feels your presence
Scale success while keeping the fire alive at home and within yourself
When fire and edge come together, you don’t just break ceilings. You become unstoppable.
The Ascension Men’s Community
A global brotherhood of men committed to ending the internal war and rising into embodied masculine leadership.
Inside The Ascension, we do the real work together.
Each quarter, we focus on a key pillar of embodied masculine leadership. You’ll experience powerful live workshops, shadow and identity work, and real connection with men walking the same path.
This is where men come to:
Rebuild trust with themselves
Be seen without judgment
Lead without the mask
Transform their relationships, impact, and identity
You don’t need to do this alone anymore.
This is your place to rise with brothers who are rising too.
The Heart-led Man
Podcast
A show dedicated to giving men the tools to overcome personal challenges and evolve into becoming heart-led leaders. We delve into the psyche and development of men, embodiment, relationships, spirituality and leadership. This is for the man who wants to be of high value, who strives to live a life of freedom, success and purpose, whilst leading his life and others from his most powerful source, his heart.
Not sure where to start?
Start with the quiz. it’s the fastest way to uncover the hidden pattern blocking your inner fire and edge. You’ll walk away with a personalized insight, your current stage, and next steps to shift.
