Evan Spargo
Men’s Performance Coach & Facilitator
Break your performance ceiling and lead at the level you’re built for.
You’re the leader others rely on.
Built the business, a man of high performance, and set the standard.
But now, you’ve hit a ceiling… it’s quiet, stubborn, frustrating.
The fire that made you unstoppable? Now just a flicker.
You perform, you deliver, but inside you know: you’re running below what you’re built for.
It’s not burnout or laziness. It’s the hidden patterns that once drove your success, now capping your potential.
You’re surrounded by people, but no one gets it.
You’re the strong one, the problem solver, the anchor.
But who challenges you to break through, so you access more of yourself and lead at your true level?
If you’re done settling, and ready to break that ceiling, for good…
Then you’re in the right place.
About Evan
I’ve dedicated my life trying everything I can to break through my own limitations and patterns, so I can fulfil my purpose of helping other, heart-led, high performing men and leaders in the world break through their own, to make the world a better place.
I’m Evan Spargo, a Men’s Performance Coach & Facilitator (ICF Master Certified Coach, MCC) with over 2,800 hours coaching, and founder of The Ascension Brotherhood.
I’ve coached 200+ executives, coaches, athletes and leaders, men who carry others but secretly feel stuck at their own ceiling. I know the pressure, before coaching, I represented the Philippines as an international athlete. On the outside, I was calm, capable, and confident. On the inside, I was anxious, insecure, and disconnected.
My breakthrough came when I stopped going it alone and combined my fire (passion, depth, connection) with my edge (discipline, standards, performance).
Now, through the Inner Fire Method™, I help men like you…
Break the internal patterns that cap your performance, leadership and impact
Lead with grounded confidence, under pressure, at home, and everywhere you show up
Forge brotherhood, raise your standards, and discover who you truly are, side by side with men who refuse to settle
The men I work with don’t want another coach—they want real challenge, real structure, and a brotherhood that holds them higher.
Ready to see what happens when you stop leading alone?
What’s costing you your edge?
You’ve achieved more than most. You’ve built, performed, led. But lately, it’s like you’re running at 80%.
This isn’t laziness. It isn’t burnout. It’s the hidden patterns that cost you time, energy, and presence when you need them most.
This short quiz reveals what’s dulling your fire, and how to sharpen your edge again so you can perform at your true peak under pressure.
If your ceiling is showing up at home, start here…
Turn tension and distance into trust and connection, fast.
Get the same practical tools I use with top clients to rebuild safety and intimacy.
No fluff. No therapy. Real action, real results, so you can lead at home the way you do everywhere else.
All for just $9.
Inside, you’ll learn:
The 5-Trait Framework that moves her from guarded → open
How to lead with calm presence (even in conflict)
A step-by-step Weekly Relationship Check-In Kit you can use together
Grounding practices to stay steady when you’re triggered
Apply what’s inside and she will feel the difference in weeks, not years.
Stop guessing what she needs.
Become the man she can finally relax with.
My Signature Method: The Inner Fire Method
A 6-stage process built to transform high-performing men into grounded, fire-fueled, edge-sharpened leaders:
Wake – Bring awareness to the hidden patterns driving stress and stagnation, so you stop repeating the same mistakes.
Feel – Reconnect to the body, breath, and emotions, so you access calm presence on demand, even in high-stakes moments.
Face – Expose the precise blind spots and root cause of your performance ceilings.
Break – Shatter the unconscious patterns and blocks, so every move comes from clarity, authentic power and strength.
Rise – Build an unshakable identity rooted in truth, not titles, so confidence is who you are, not what you achieve.
Lead – Step into business, love, and life as a fire-fueled, edge-sharpened leader, so every room you walk into, from boardroom to bedroom, you own with clarity and conviction.
You won’t just learn this work. You’ll embody it.
It will change how you move, feel, lead, and love, forever.
This is the backbone of the Ascension Brotherhood and the reason behind the countless of men’s who’ve worked with me, extraordinary changes in their performance and leadership.
Work With Me
If you’re done coasting and ready to smash through your performance ceiling, this is where you do it.
The Ascension Brotherhood
The Brotherhood for Men Who Lead
An online global brotherhood for high-performing men and leaders who refuse to settle. If you’re looking for real challenge, higher standards, and a space to discover who you truly are, you belong here.
This isn’t another men’s group.
It’s a brotherhood for men who already carry weight for others, executives, coaches, founders, leaders, who want to raise their standards, break old patterns, and expand their identity alongside men who demand more from themselves and each other.
Inside Ascension, you’ll:
Forge bonds that hold you to your highest standard, no more lone wolf
Get challenged to grow emotionally, mentally, and as a leader
Drop the mask, face your blind spots, and commit to transformation with depth, structure, and accountability
Wake up driven, clear, and on fire at work, at home, and in yourself
Master emotional intelligence, shadow integration, and grounded masculine leadership
Every quarter, we attack a new pillar of self leadership, through live workshops, men’s circles, and relentless accountability. You’ll walk out clearer, stronger, and more connected than ever.
Three Levels of Commitment:
Standard: Full access to weekly workshops, men’s circles, training vault, accountability, and private community
Premium: Everything in Standard, plus monthly 1:1, weekly Q&A, and a personalized implementation plan (capped at 15)
Proximity: Weekly 1:1 private mentorship, unlimited support, priority access, and a hot seat on every call (capped at 5, by application only)
If you’re ready to raise your standard, smash your ceiling, and discover who you really are…
Click here to explore The Ascension Brotherhood and apply for a guest seat.
1:1 Coaching
Not ready for brotherhood? Want to deep dive with me privately?
Click here for a 1:1 Performance Breakthrough session.
Not sure where to start?
Book a free 20-minute Clarity Call to uncover what’s holding you back and map your next steps.
Results That Speak Louder Than Promises
From boardrooms to cockpits, from entrepreneurs to athletes, this work changes how men lead, love, and live.
Meet Sergey, Senior Change Manager
Meet Dan, Senior Marketing Professional
Meet Chris, Co-Founder & COO
Meet Jerry, Marketing Manager
What Client’s Are Saying
The Heart-led Man
Podcast
A show dedicated to giving men the tools to overcome personal challenges and evolve into becoming heart-led leaders. We delve into the psyche and development of men, embodiment, relationships, spirituality and leadership. This is for the man who wants to be of high value, who strives to live a life of freedom, success and purpose, whilst leading his life and others from his most powerful source, his heart.
Not sure where to start?
Start with the quiz. it’s the fastest way to uncover the hidden pattern blocking your performance. You’ll walk away with a personalized insight, your current stage, and next steps to shift.
Or book a free 20-minute Clarity Call with me
We’ll talk through your situation, uncover what’s holding you back, and map out the next steps to reclaim your edge and break through your performance ceiling.
